Hi i have had my life destroyed for the last 5 years.by A very powerfuk woman in my industry. I never met her for a coffee on the advice of someone who I though was a friend and 5 years on I realise the advice she gave me was due to jealousy as she didn't want me to succeed. Unknown to me this women knows everyone who is anyone in the industry and obviously very vengeful and power mad. She has spread lies and slander about me fur 5 year's and ensured everyone in the industry has turned against me. I have had life changing opportunities presented yo me in my career and they disappear without a trace or explanation, all people she knows it happened again in the last week. During thus 5 years because if the bullying I've been subjected to by thus woman I've attempted suicide twice my once blissfully happy relationship on tge verge of divorce and my dad become ill a few month's after i met thus women. Meaning the while 5 years of my business and career I've been juggling looking After my dad also, who passed away 12 months next month. Can anyone help me expose this woman publically for the liar and bully she and conffess that she has been unjustly slandering me and my business. Since my dad passed I'm now having to live with my mum 3 days per week to look after her. And again all while to forge a successful career. I have received press recognition and accolades and have took myself of the radar in my home town which is where all thus us happening yo he but last week at an event I met someone who wanted to genuinely help me and when she mentioned names she knew I knew it wouldn't happen. But sadly now I'm back in the radar
My deepest condolences for your loss. No one should ever have to work under these conditions. Have you tried reporting this to your company's HR department or gather enough evidence to present a case/lawsuit for sabotage and harassment? Five years is a very long time to put up with all of this, and such a hostile work environment is a violation of your rights.
I never met her for a coffee on the advice of someone who I though was a friend and 5 years on I realise the advice she gave me was due to jealousy as she didn't want me to succeed.
I think this may be more the root of the issue, as you also don't know what your jealous advisor has told this other person about you as well. Not knowing you or the other two main players in this tale, I cannot pass any judgment. However, I can relate to tight-knit professional communities being integral to successful businesses in a given area. Sometimes all it takes is misinformation from one person, and its effects can last for years.
Perhaps you could try confronting this influential woman, at least try to come clean, telling her you don't have any hard feeling against her (even though you may, but often forgiveness is more for the self than for the other person) and ask if there's any way to ammend yourself to her and possibly build a professional rapport.
It may also be time to severing all ties to the person who manipulated you for their own personal gain, setting you up for failure to prevent your success in the first place.
An additional thought is that perhaps the person who deliberately misguided you may have unintentionally done some baneful magic against you in their efforts. Something like an uncrossing ritual might be helpful in your endeavors to straighten this situation out.
I can get the gist of what you are attempting to tell us, but it is unclear what we can exactly do for you with the information we received in this post. It seems from what you are trying to say is that there is a person in your specific industry with some sort of advantage over you, that is black balling you, in your endeavors to promote yourself and or your career forward. It seems this person garners respect and influence in your industry and is using this leverage to stop anyone that deals with that person and receives the benefits of that, from dealing with you for fear of loosing the benefits of dealing with your Nemesis. If the facts are as I have just laid them out for you then the problem is finding a person of equal power to become your champion by either bringing you into their sphere of things, or doing business with you to brake the chain of influence that other entity has on you. You should probably solicit the help of the evil persons main competitor.
the text was to long and boring for me, but what you need is a revenge spell, expose a liar to all is just a softer way to say revenge spell, and i'll quote that phase i've read "you can't heal if you can't curse"