Love block found by tarot

Hi everyone, yesterday I had a consultation with a fortune teller (done with tarots), I asked him why I have difficulty attracting love in a "natural" way without carrying out rituals of any kind. He responded by saying that I'm unconsciously undecided about who I'm with (I'm bisexual) and what my relationship should be like or how it should end. Furthermore, I was told that from the cards it appears that although I can obtain love relationships in the future, they will always be interrupted due to an energy block caused by rituals previously done by me which have "dirtied" the possibility of attracting in a manner natural love in my life. My question is: if what I was told is true, how can I clean up this block that I created? or if it is a generic karmic or energetic block how can I resolve it?

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This sounds more like the scam tactic of "There's a curse on you, but don't worry I can fix it, its just going to cost you 500 USD, then they'll contact you again , Hi turns out there's a block preventing my curse breaker from working but I can fix it for only 600 USD, and this is quite the discount..." and this repeats until you either stop paying or simply run out of money. Also that reading sounds incredibly vague for tarot which is usually quite detailed. Also, if I may ask, do you know any witches? and if not, then I ask why would someone curse a person who they will never be in contact with? Second, curses take energy , effort and practice, etc. So I don't see someone cursing a random person to never find love when that situation of this person (you) finding love doesn't even effect them. And if someone was going to curse you why only target your love life? Without looking into the matter myself this is just my take of the situation going off of what you've written. Now onto curse breaking. Curses can in general by either overpowered or cleansed away, problem is without knowing how the specific curse works no witch (real witch) can really tell you how you can resolve it, as if there is a curse and this person went to all of this trouble to curse you (if any of this is true to begin with) then the spell may be anchored to something, in which case this makes it more difficult to figure out how to undo. I'd offer to do an uncrossing spell for you but as you can imagine with the holidays swiftly approaching I'm kind of busy to offer any assistance. But I do hope this is of some use to you.

Thank you

SpiritWitch8

To be fair, by how I read what is described this isn't a curse but more a self-inflicted consequence of energies getting confused and muddled up because of, effectively, meddling. And to me it makes sense.

Many people look for things they like and resist things they need. It is a human-nature thing as we are drawn to things that are comfortable, easy, and pleasant. ...People are also an impatient, impulsive, infatuous bunch. We get a first impression of someone then fall into a fantasy of what that first impression would mean for us. We construct desire over who we want/assume a person to be. Then even as time reveals the fantasy doesn't meet reality we think we can change the situation to make it what we want it to be instead of seeing what it is and letting it go.

So yes, it is certainly possible that a person could get in their own way. It is something that happens all the time actually. The good news is that such a situation is indeed reversible. It just relies on learning to let go of expectations, and in so doing to stop feeding your own block.

Personal experience story-time;

One of the first genuinely magical things I did (of a very short list of genuine magical things I've done) was to be taken through a guide-calling by a friend and practicing witch. I was just beginning my journey at the time. I'm talking not-even baby steps here. More like the spiritual level of 'laying about in diapers staring at the ceiling and discovering how fingers work' level.

I had discovered the idea of having guides and guardians in several books I read at the time, and in my excited youth determined I wanted one for myself because, well, I needed the help. I felt totally blind and directionless and qas hoping for some 'thing' to take my hand and point me in a direction.

In the working, as we began, I was simply told that when it was time in the ritual I would be signaled by my friend and then I was to declare what I wanted. I had a whole five minutes to make sure I asked for the right thing as I at least knew how important wording was. There were spirit guides, spirit guardians, guardian angels, teachers, animal spirits, ancestors and-oh hell there's the signal say something now "My spirit Guide".

Next thing I knew the circle was closed and the candles were snuffed, and I was sitting there thinking "well... now what?"

For weeks I looked for information on guides, what forms they took, how to recognize them... The ritual was done just before Christmas, and one of the presents I got was a clay dragon Bisque (un-painted) statue.

I went on thinking about angels and wise figures.

Over the winter and spring I made a project of painting the dragon. Dry-brushing was a new technique to me, and I kept looking through magazines and books, looking at different color examples for the statue, but none 'felt' correct. They looked nice enough but didn't fit. So, I grabbed a bunch of colors and started mixing. I came across individual tones one at a time, and when I saw them I locked on and thought 'this is right. This belongs'. It took a couple hours but I had a full set of pigments and I knew exactly where and how they needed to be used.

Meanwhile I explored the signs and meanings of rabbits and wolves.

During the summer, as I wandered the bookstores and shops in town looking for trinkets and distractions and inspiring words, everywhere I went was an explosion of Dragon themes. Dragon posters, dragons on clothing, Dragon books and stories, Dragon tarot and crystal Dragon skulls, even a dragon chandelier that I was never able to afford.

I pondered on the wisdom of Dolphins and the quiet power of the Jaguar. I scratched my head at the Pleiadians.

Through fall and the beginning of winter I saw dragons in the clouds, and drew dragons with what little skill I could muster. I had friends who introduced me to a free-writing site based on a game where a person could be a dragon. (Now called Istaria)

I looked to all the dragon images I had been getting drawn to, and was compelled to bring to written life a figure and form that leapt to the fore of my mind. Shape, color, age, personality, goals. Intuitively and instantly it all came forward, complete with its own voice that started telling me a story. A story I wrote out in a marathon rush. Once done that voice was still there, talking to me personally. No longer dictating but living and responding to my thoughts and questions.

As I went to bed I doubted. Why would a dragon come to me? How arrogant of me. I thought of eagles instead as sleep overtook me.

I did not dream of eagles that night. It took a full year, almost to the day, for me to finally connect with the guide I had called for- what felt to be so long ago. I was looking for signs and hints. Researching possibilities and messages. But I was beginning with an expectation. I wasn't looking for a guide, I was looking for a particular form I thought my guide might be. And I was missing what was there, trying to get my attention, because I couldn't see past my biases.

My advice to you, out of this big ol' ramble, is this. To get past your blocks I don't think you need some ritual or clearing or release of energies. You just need to stop feeding your biases. Sit, be still, reset, and stop trying to 'make' things happen. Listen, observe, be aware of what you can. But see things for what they are now. Let them become whatever they may be on their own. Of their own accord.

Love will find you once you cease to try to control the form it will take. Just as all prayers are answered if you cease to determine the manner you expect them to be fulfilled.

Oh. And as a final, vitally important (and not to be understated) Note. Be active, but be patient !

It took me sixteen years to come across the idea of a spiritual path. It took me two years to think to ask for help. It took a year to reconnect with a guide that had been with me for lifetimes. ...It took me 33 years to meet My soul-mate, and another six to realize that's what she was. And still two more for me to overcome my life-experiences enough to make it official and ask for her hand.

Things take time.

How much time?

As much as it takes. No less.

Never less. ... But sometimes more- that part is up to us.

Ok thanks to everyone guys !