Hi there , how is everyone feeling?
Well for myself I feel so betrayed, sad, confused, worried and lost. Does anyone know of spells that will reveal to me a person who has told on me in a situation. I have the slightest clue of who it can be. I just know it's someone that knows me. Thank you everyone so much.
Re: Tattle tale spell anyone? By: Kaurora / Novice
Post # 3 Feb 18, 2020
This is a tricky situation. It really comes down to what actually transpired. Did you confess to someone a secret you wanted kept hidden? Or is this information about something you did wrong and were embarrassed and someone reported it?
When you are looking at this situation in a work place scenario there are actually legal obligations to report information. Some licenses, such as a Social Worker license are mandated reporters, so any information regarding an abusive relationship, domestic or anything of that nature must be reported or that individual (even if it is your friend) must report it or risk losing their license if it comes to light and they had said nothing.
Another angle is integrity. If someone does something wrong at work and you are aware it happened, by not reporting it you are risking becoming involved in that as well. Your integrity will be questioned, example:"You knew he didn't file that form correctly and you said nothing, what else have you not reported or let slip by?" You have to remember, no one is going to pay your mortgage or rent if you lose your job so by covering up for someone or simply not saying anything (looking the other way) it is risking your job as well.
On the other hand if this was a personal secret (like for example you are pregnant but don't want to announce it yet because its early) and someone blabs about it, that is heartbreaking and can cause emotional distress to you, believing you could trust someone and they betrayed that trust. If you know who it is than keep them at a distance with any information. If you told multiple people, well then, there would be no difference in everyone knowing and a group of people knowing. You shared the information. If you are really concerned and need to know the exact person, I am sure there are spells to get them to reveal themselves but why not just confront them upright. Not in a nasty way or angry way but rather approach them, tell them your suspicions and ask them if they were the one and why they felt they needed to share that information. Then explain how it made you feel and the distrust you now have. Doing it this way will give you the opportunity to speak to them and maintain your friendship and even perhaps strengthen it. Showing them how their actions hurt you will help them realize their mistake.
Good luck with this. Hopefully you can work things out and not lose a friend over it. I have been on the other end, where I have had to report to HR about an abusive domestic violence situation and I lost my friend over it. It needed to be reported and I was obligated to do this. If it means losing a friend who felt betrayed over what I did, I would rather that then not say anything and read about her being killed in the paper.
None of that sort I have been traumatize from pass experiences from being rape, and almost being raped multiple times. I have been stalked home. Molested by my elementary school teacher. The list goes on. So therefore in my home I have a brand new gun locked up and put away in a safe. Someone got in trouble with the law and decided to tell on me to get out of trouble. I have no idea who it is. Now I feel unsafe , paranoid and worried all over again.
Re: Tattle tale spell anyone? By: Kaurora / Novice
Post # 6 Feb 19, 2020
That's a little more information. I hope you didn't feel obligated to disclose all of that, its just difficult to make clear projections when only having limited information on the matter. So I am assuming that you can't possess a firearm or are in a state that prohibits possession of a firearm? This is difficult because I live in an open carry state so firearms are everywhere and unless you have a past felony conviction or probation/bail conditions that prohibit you from possessing one, you can own one.
Having your history and background you do want protection and without the comfort of having your firearm you are now vulnerable not just physically but mentally as well. Just knowing you had protection was putting your mind at ease and now that it is no longer there you have nothing but anxiety. I can support your guess about someone giving up information to get out of trouble. I see it every single day in my line of work, especially when trying to do a plea deal for lesser charges. I am sorry that you are now facing this situation.
First, before you dive into seeking out the betrayer (but lets be honest, you know in your gut who it is.) I would focus on yourself. You should do grounding work and then a shield with protection. I would also look into invoking a protection spell into a charm, necklace or pendent that you can wear. Just having a physical tangible object is one level of feeling secure. (which is why the firearm was a comfort to you) Depending on your state laws you can look into two other means of protection that generally don't have restrictions. OC or pepper spray is a big one. Training on its use is fairly simple, most come in a line spray. Avoid mist ones and ones that cannot be inverted. You want to be able to spray from any angle. Carry one with you in a bag and have one or two around your house for easy access. The effects take a few seconds to go in but when they do they are very effective in blinding someone for several minutes. Just be aware if you deploy its use you may have residual spray hit you so prepare for burning in your eyes.
The other option is a taser, which that is a specific name brand but any incapacitating device would work. While you can't order the deploying prods, you can get a small hand held one that requires a drive stun to work (direct contact on the body). the prongs are fixed on the device which is the only model available for consumer use.
Be aware of your surroundings and document every single issue. If you have a stalker or someone that you have a PFA (protection from abuse) order on and they are violating that order, document every incident and continue to report this to the police. I know it seems like they might not do anything but you are making a paper trail. If you say nothing and then finally go when its really bad, they will only have documented the one account instead of all the little ones that have been taking place.
As for exposing your betrayer I don't have a specific spell for that but I believe with good meditation and perhaps a well written spell by you, you can meditate and the image of who it was should appear in your thoughts. Like I said before, you already have an image of someone and you are probably right, since you are already seeking out that answer.
Good luck and stay safe. If you need any other information, especially regarding support services connections and other home defense options you can message me privately. Some of my work involves infrastructure security and design. I can point you in the right direction depending on your state and situation.