Well, it would seem I've been "beaten to the punch", but I have a few nodes of wisdom to add...
1. Yes, you will need two lodestones. They need to be attracted to each other, as in magnetized to some degree, to represent the "male" and "female".
Magnetic Sand, is iron shavings. You can usually buy a bag of it at a craft store, and various sites around the internet.
2. You can create the bag out of any material, even using a pre-made bag, as long as it's red.
As stated in a previous post, it needs to be big enough to hold all the items, yet small enough to hide on your person. For it can't been seen or touched, by another person.
3. Honestly, I would just use :
a. A pair of lodestones.
b. A small red candle (the ones used on birthday cakes or cupcakes).
c. Two dimes. One with your birth year, and one with his.
d. One "High John the Conqueror" root.
e. One "Queen Elizabeth" root.
f. You'll also want an oil, that's created specifically for "love". There's quite a number of them, on this site's online store.
g. Cinnamon (sticks or powder), dried rose petals/buds, dried lavender, and sugar.
h. Sage (stick or loose) for "smudging/blessing".
(Bodily fluids are optional, as most people are freaked out by the thought...)
("Dressing" - A dab of oil on the object, or its corners.)
Prepare by "dressing" the pair of lodestones, with your oil and then the magnetic sand (whiskey or other).
Now "dress" the two dimes. State your name, on the one with your birth year. Then state his name, on the one with his birth year.
"Dress" the High John, with his name and your intentions for him.
Now, "dress" the Queen Elizabeth, with your name and your intentions.
"Dress" your bag, by adding a drop of your oil to each corner, and along the bottom between the two corners.
Start placing the loose items into the bag. Sugar --> Lavender --> Rose petals/buds --> Cinnamon
Now, place in the two dimes.
Then, place in the two roots.
Then, place in the red candle.
Finally, the pair of lodestones, then close/tie up the bag.
Find a fire-proof dish or bowl, to burn your sage. Once a nice smoke starts going, hold your bag within the smoke ( not near the flame).
This is where you'll say your final prayers/intentions, read any psalms, etc.
Your mojo bag/hand is now complete.
In your waking hours, the bag is hidden on your person. Usually in a pocket, or pinned inside your pants or bra.
Before going to bed, place the bag within a white cloth (any type) and place it somewhere out of the sight of others.
I prepared my mojo bag 2 days ago, awakening all the items n everything as stated. but now i realize i haven't exhaled or breathed into it. though i made it alive through incense smoke for an hour.
Should i open my mojo n breath into it now?
Secondly, sometimes, my mojo gives stronger smell of my annotated oil than usual. does it have any spiritual significance to it?