I have always been told that writing your own spells will be more effective since your putting your own energy into them. As someone who is so invested into one person, I really want to cast a love spell. They love me, they have affection towards me, but for some reason the knot just cant be tied. Would casting a love spell for them to start dating me be considered messing with free will? And if it is not considered messing with free will, how does it not? Is it true writing my own spells and bringing items like pictures, candles, roses, red ink. Will that make it more effective? Thanks!