So I did a think of me spell last Thursday night during the height of the waxing moon. I felt great about the spell while I was doing it and afterwards. I know that my energy was good as were my thoughts.
Now the person I did this spell on (link below), we generally speak on a daily basis. Literally since Friday he has been radio silent and not replied to my basic messages. Now this has gotten me worried about the spell.. did is backfire? because now I can't stop thinking about him and what is going on... So now I am scared that my negative thoughts have caused this to come three fold on me and it's made him not want anything to do with me all of a sudden??? Can that happen??
Need assistance & guidance in this. And maybe how to break this if it went wrong.. and help for it to go right if at all possible..
Link of spell used:
Step back and take a deep breath. Sometimes, when these obsession-type spells are cast, the target tends to withdraw. Why? My guess is that they are suddenly inundated by thoughts of you and are afraid of what's going on. It'll pass.
The same thing has happened to me!!!!! I recently cast a love spell over several nights. My person of interest had previously been in regular contact with me and had shown interest in me. Very recently he has pulled away and had not contacted me for a couple of days. I intiated contact with him recently and he was abrupt in his response. I know this is not just coincidence. I will let the spell take its course and not be too worried about it. I have also cast a spell on myself so I can remove feelings of obsession I had developed. I feel that this would help me "let go" so to speak and stop me constantly thinking about him. Please keep me updated in regards to your progress
Maybe he or someone else cast a reflecting spell on him. So naturally it would hit you right back. Remember, invading someone's thoughts/dreams or emotions with magick is dark and it's counted as an attack. If he carries any talismans/amulets or other defensive items, the curse could reflect without him even knowing he did it.
Now, how to break it.. I'm not an expert so you might wanna ask someone else but if there's literally no other advice than i suggest you fill your bath with water, add white rose petals or something that symbolises purity, hop in and imagine yourself washing the curse away. you can create a chant if it will help you concentrate. than after the bath light a (preferably) white candle, or 3 if you enough candles to waste and meditate for about an hour. now empty your mind of thoughts and focus on feeling instead. start from the top of your head and feel your body relaxing and being cleansed bit by bit. don't think about anything else. the energy will do its work. after that don't do anything exciting for few more hours like more magick. reading yes, but don't practice it.
Anyway, you got a taste of your own curse, so next time you invade someone's freedom remember how you wouldn't like anyone else to do it to you. Peace