I have a very annoying coworker that I want to quit. First I sprinkled hot foot powder in her office. She came in the next day with a vacuum cleaner and vacuumed her floor! Then I requested an on-line free spell that did not work. Then I requested another on-line free spell that did not work. Then I got a small doll made of sticks and threads. I put a pin through it, placed the doll in a small, draw string bag, filled the inside of the bag with hot foot powder, then threw it out the window of my moving car. I have done very strong visualizations of her leaving and even more things. I have been doing all of this over the last year. Yesterday a different co-worker quit but not her!! And there is no indication that she is leaving. What do I do?? I am desperate!!! I want her to quit and find a great job someplace else!
I guess it is a "be careful what you wish for" situation. If You want her to leave, but she wants to stay (and may be she wants You to quit) then You are going pretty much head against a wall. May be to want her fired would be more fruitful wish.
Wow. Hate to this extreme is not healthy. You've tried, it hasn't worked, try to move on. Throw yourself into your own work, avoid her, probably look into finding inner peace of some kind. There are more important things in this life than an annoying co-worker.
The co-worker is in a higher position than me. She has the boss' ear, so to speak. She and I have a lot of bad history and she has been very cruel to me. Talking it out wont help I am sorry to say. The relationship is broken. I have a very good relationship with my boss and will be promoted soon but not to the co-worker's level.
I do agree a bit that your desire for her to leave does sound like it has hit the unhealthy point.
Sprinkling powder in her office is unprofessional. If someone were to find out, you could face disciplinary action and you would probably would. Karma would strike you. Also, throwing the voodoo doll out the window? That sounds quite violent and over exaggerated. I have had an annoying manager once and he claimed I worshiped Satan when he saw my pentacle necklace. In my mind, I raged, but I kept it to a minimum and forced myself to focus on the tasks at hand until I got off my shift. Maybe try some deep breathing when she angers you. If you feel you shouldn't talk it out, then simply be the bigger person and be mature despite your dislike for her. If you want to go the metaphysical route, do meditation on a daily basis. Go out for lunch in you need a break. She probably will not leave, so you will either need to come to terms with this or consider leaving yourself for the sake of your career happiness.
Hi, I had some trouble too with coworker, but after struggling with my anger I come to this kind of solution:
I calmed down, forgave her and used magic to bind her from trouble making. The next day - I came to work - I was transferred, and we got separated, after that she stopped gossips, being angry at me and so on...(long list to write :D )
By the way - shy was trying to get me fired for at least 4 months in the first place... so I guess my guardians were very strong...
Think this over and always make a decision that wont hurt others. BB :)
If your coworker "has the bosses ear" and a "high position" maybe she is more susceptible to praise...this may sound a bit absurd but have you tried blessings of good faith, improved morale, or other blessings that could help her in ways that may benefit others as well as yourself? It seems a bit to late for such actions now (especially after the voodoo doll thing Hahaha) but for future refference you should work towards building better "overall" situations in the office if not the entire company instead of resorting to acts of cowardice(like sneaking around her office and tossing voodoo dolls)So far your actions have not described you very well. She might have been a company rep in Japan by now. And problem solved!