Joylene, I think that you will need to provide more information for people to be able to help you effectively. So far all you've given us is "someone in another country... marriage... powerful... none of mine have worked."
Why don't you give a brief (but slightly less brief than what you've already said) description of your situation, to allow us to help you better.
the story is: i have been with this dude for nine years. he is a canadian working in another country. he comes home every month. i think that its time for him to take the next step forward and commit himself. hence the reason for me asking for the spell.
What you need is an open line of communication between the two of you. Next time he is home, have a talk. Tell him how you feel about your relationship, and ask him what he wants out of it and where he thinks it is going. If he doesn't know, he doesn't know.
Make it clear, however, what you want out of it. If you want commitment, say so. If he doesn't want to commit to you, you should be concerned. In that case you should re-evaluate your stakes in the relationship, and decide if the waiting and wondering is actually worth your time.
Re: powerful love spell By: LdyGry / Adept Aug 03, 2009
Post # 10
Try a "Come-To-Me" type of love spell. Google it. This sub-family of love spells often includes moving candles (moving your candle and your lover's candle progressively closer together over the course of the working). Other common elements include magnets, Lodestones (magnetic rocks), and incorporate magically fixed "lures" such as love letters, phone calls, gifts, and other things to open the doors of communication.
Many times the botanicals in these spells' recipes include herbs that work as "summoners" as well as your traditional love herbs.
In a reconciliation type spell, physical proximity doesn't matter as much as emotional proximity or time elapsed. If you still have contact with this person it will obviously be easier to draw him back to you versus someone you broke up with years ago. Also having access to their personal effects such as hair, handwriting, soiled clothes, foot tracks, business card, photo, etc., makes for more powerful work. Other than that, feel free to work on a person from another country - it just might make it a touch more challenging. Good luck!