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I already know that I cannot 100 percent prevent anyone from joking/making fun of me or anything but is there a spell or something to help so a couple of the people in the group don't make fun of me?

some info on the situation:

A couple of my friends and i are having a small pool party gathering tonight. One of my closest friends boyfriend has the tendancy to make fun of me becuase I'm a transman. Ive spoken to my friend about it but she keeps passing it off as nonsense. A few weeks ago, we had a small pool birthday party for a friend's younger sister and he kept laughing at the fact I was uncomfortable with going into the pool as I had not had top surgery yet and it bothers me. The reason I'm going to this particular gathering is becuase another close friend is moving three states away to take care of her grandmother and grandfather and this is the last full day we will see her for a long time.

I told my friend about how i felt about the swimming and jokes and she snapped saying that im being overdramatic.

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Re: To help prevent a-
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It maybe best to just no longer associate her as a friend. Sure, there are spells you can do, but on a more mundane level it's usually not a great idea to continue calling toxic people your friends. A friend will hear you out and try and understand you when you're opening up to them, whereas she's clearly more interested in defending her mate. It's not much of a friendship if you cannot voice any grievances.

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I agree with Asmodai, that your best bet is not associating with people, who disregard your feelings and call themselves friends. A real friend will at least try to understand your feelings, and try to make up to you in one way or another. I personally will feel ashamed for making a friend to feel bad and apologize at least.

You cannot forcefully change peoples' understanding and ways of thinking on long run magically. They always will return to their natural propensities. You will only get hurt again and again. A person that does not accept you for who you are and disregard your feelings is not a friend let alone close friend. You are better without her in your life.
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