I already know that I cannot 100 percent prevent anyone from joking/making fun of me or anything but is there a spell or something to help so a couple of the people in the group don't make fun of me?
some info on the situation:
A couple of my friends and i are having a small pool party gathering tonight. One of my closest friends boyfriend has the tendancy to make fun of me becuase I'm a transman. Ive spoken to my friend about it but she keeps passing it off as nonsense. A few weeks ago, we had a small pool birthday party for a friend's younger sister and he kept laughing at the fact I was uncomfortable with going into the pool as I had not had top surgery yet and it bothers me. The reason I'm going to this particular gathering is becuase another close friend is moving three states away to take care of her grandmother and grandfather and this is the last full day we will see her for a long time.
I told my friend about how i felt about the swimming and jokes and she snapped saying that im being overdramatic.