So, a while back, a girl I was talking to and I got pretty emotionally involved and she even told me she loved me at several points. Then she turned around and ditched me for my best friend. And I didn't find out about it until she sent me a typed out and signed/dated letter over Google Docs. I was beyond insulted.
My question is this. Would it be a good idea or a bad idea to cast a powerful love spell on her, only to say "sorry, you had a chance to be with me but you picked her instead." just to watch her feel how I did?
I don't really believe you can force her to love you if she doesn't. However, that doesn't mean you can't hex her. If someone lied to me about loving me I'd hex them. I do not take such words lightly. So I can empathize with your situation.
Some will likely blather on about karma and being a naughty witch will get you punished by the karma police. But do understand that is not a concept everyone believes in or abides by. Though there is still spell backfire. Which means know what you are doing and cleanse your space afterwards to get the bad vibes to vacate your space. Don't want negative energy floating around your home after you are done.
Love spell? no, doing something like a hex? Sure, but first chill out am evaluate if she even worth that much,better to call her out about her scummy tactics . Also take a good look at your "best friend", i hate saying it this way, because whatever you do will effect them and if this has happened before drop the best from the best friend cause i really DON'T think they have your best interests at heart.
On a morality standpoint I suppose it depends entirely on how you want to see yourself when you look back and reminisce. Place yourself into your own shoes ten or so years from now, and look at the situation as if it was already concluded. Would you feel regret or shame for committing revenge? Or would you see it as a balancing of the scales, as you said letting her experience your perspective. If you feel that you can accept responsibility for the potential consequences of your actions then go ahead.
That said I agree that something akin to a hex would be easier and more effective than a love spell. You could also tailor the spell to be a bit more in line with that intent of balancing the scales rather than causing harm or gaining revenge. (or spite)
Ideas like the rule of three, karma, spiritualism, and causality are complex and nuanced after all. So with so much grey area to work with, ultimately it is up to you and your own self reflection as to whether any option you choose might be productive or not for your personal well-being and growth.
Don't waste your energy casting a love spell so you can say "sorry, you had a chance to be with me but you picked her instead". In my experience there has always been a lesson to learn in all experiences. I've been in a similar situation though love wasn't involved, I was still betrayed, I considered working with Medea the witch of betrayal. I had honored her before because her story was so sad, and after performing a spell I had written, keeping the intent that unlike Jason this person doesn't deserve to die but they do need to pay. After I'd done my ritual the person who'd betrayed me had horrible things happening to them. This was when I'd still see them in school, I ended up casting a banishing spell because I couldn't stand them anymore, they attended a different school after that and I haven't seen them since, yet what Medea told me when I finished casting the spell with her help was that this person would rue the day they betrayed me, so I personally feel like the effects of that spell are still being felt by that person to this day. Now mine was a certain situation where I had put a lot of thought and time thinking if this is something I really wanted to do. I meditated on this, asked my aspect of the moon godess and horned God on this, and only when I was one hundred percent sure, did I start preparing for the ritual. So make sure you really want it to happen to that person, think long and hard and consider everything, stephshreff.
I'm also thinking of casting a spell on my baby daddy who promised to love me forever and then decided not to talk to me blocked me and don't even support his child.I just want to teach a lesson that he will never forget
Yeah it could work but there might be some negative consequences to it. You'll be creating someone who is obsessed with you and if you reject someone that madly obsessed with you.. look out. You'll have a real life Fatal Attraction on your hands.