I am being harassed by my really sick neighbor and her boyfriend across the street from me; she has been spreading a lot of gossip, looking in my windows, and harassing me. I really do not need this after all I have went through in the past 3 years with the losses of people I love (4), my health and mental health (PTSD, Anxiety, major depression). I am starting to get back on my feet and living a good life but this is really interfering with what I need to do: getting myself healthy, happy, whole and learning about what I need to do spiritually so I can move on and be able to help others with all that I have learned to help others be to their full potential.
She (my neighbor) is a very abusive, meth-head, very manipulative, petty and jealous. Even though I have been nothing but kind, patient, and have not done anything to deserve this....she wants to use me to take the focus off her meth use, her neglecting her children (using meth while she was pregnant) and try to put it on me just because she sees me as an easy target and I use to use meth a long time ago. I have tried to tell her to leave me alone as nicely as I possibly could but there is no rationalizing with her.
I am not too sure if I am capable of doing a ritual right now with the holidays coming up and not having any family any more it is hard and I know that I do not want to be feeling any negative emotions while performing any ritual.
Can anyone make any suggestions or just say a prayer to the God and Goddess for me?
If you are being harrassed, you can let the authorities know. You could also tip them off about her meth use. If worse comes to worse, a restraining order is always an option.
It is always a good idea to use practical methods, such as calling authorities, first or in lieu of magical workings.
I would suggest a protection spell, a cleansing, and/or warding. All of these things can be really simple if you want or need them to be. I'm not sure your background on magic, so I'm not going to suggest specifics here (if you want, you can message me), though there are plenty of spells here on site that could suit your needs, or you could make your own.
The thing I am very afraid of is some kind of retaliation from her boyfriend and I do not always know when she is using; she does go through very brief periods where she does not and I do believe that when you call the authorities or child protection you pretty much have to catch them in the act. I am here by myself in my house and I am afraid if I were to do that even though they would haul her away her boyfriend (father of her baby boy) would immediately blame me and he has a few friends which I sense are shady and would not hesitate to do me harm. Plus I have my kitties here which I love very dearly and would not react very well if any of them were harmed....I am really doing my best with what I have which is not much when you think about it. I do believe my doing a a ritual would be my best bet in this sticky situation :(
I'm sure what you did was fine. But you could send me a private message on the site's mail system so we can talk about the specifics of any spells or rituals further.
You may be able to drop an anonymous tip to the authorities (if at any point you know for a fact she is using), which will help so she doesn't know it is you. But, if you are being harrassed, the authorities should do their best to keep you safe if you feel threatened. I know some places are better about that than others, but it is some food for thought. I do understand if you feel as if you can't right now; the decision is utimitely up to you.
casting a protective spells seems best as well as possibly getting a restraining order against thats a couple ideas that come to mind as well as praying to the God and Goddess to cause them to fall victim to any karmic punishments they diserve to befall them
Re: Should I perform a spell? By: Nekoshema / Novice
Post # 8 Dec 23, 2016
document and report this behaviors. i doubt she'd go to jail, it might be a retraining order [and if violated then jail-time]
first i would tell her to back off, next i would cast a number of spells [and if she's looking in my window she might realize i'm a witch a run away out of fear lol, sometimes stereotypes are good] i would cleanse and protect my space and myself so you're surrounded by positive energy. to keep her off my property i would put some protection sand or loose incense blend around my property line as a magickal barrier [it won't fling her off your property, but it will send back negative energy and make her feel really uncomfortable on your property] third i would cast a stop gossip spell. if all those spells [and the law getting involved] doesn't work, i would consider some type of curse like 'you messed with a witch' you don't have to, it's just sometimes you have to consider getting your hands dirty. [though after the three other spells i would suggest holding your head high and focusing on yourself.]
you could also try a spell to make her move. check out LadyGraveDancer on youtube, she has a few protection spells/sands/incense videos and she also sells them online. i remember she talked about a spell to make her annoying neighbours move [but i can't remember which one exactly]