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It's so hard. Thanks so much but I'm scared of asking him. Ma he your right maybe he actually have a gf and he straight. Maybe I should gave up on him.
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It's so hard. Thanks so much but I'm scared of asking him. Ma he your right maybe he actually have a gf and he straight. Maybe I should gave up on him.
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When I had a horrible ex, who spread rumors about me before I broke up with him, I asked my friend for help, I told her what he was doing and she told me to follow my heart, the best I can tell you is follow your heart, keep him as your friend and close to your heart. You will find someone someday, there are plenty of fish in the sea!
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But my heart still beats for him. I'm always happy for him as well. It's not lust but love. I still love him. Do you watch Naruto? I'm like Sakura to Sasuke.
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I do know that feeling.. It was with my first boyfriend, we dated for seven years, then he cheated on me on valentines day.

It'll be hard, but eventually those feelings will fade, it takes time, you just have to be patient, and let time take its course.
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How you even know the person that I love is actually the one for me but I have to wait later on in life for it?
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You never know, you see love is a mystery, it can't be solved, there is so much we don't understand, when you meet someone, and you feel a strong love for them to the point your heartaches for them, it could be a sign that the person is the one, yes it can mislead us into getting hurt in the end, but you won't know unless you don't try.
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Ok cool thanks for the offer. I'll see whenever.
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I have had feelings and attraction for men that I either knew were straight or just didn't know. As it has been suggested I agree that you should talk to him and share with him that you care about him. The first step is actively but calmly telling him how you feel and allow him time to take it in and respond. He may reject you, he may even get upset especially if it challenges his own identity and sexuality. But don't let this frighten you.

One thing that I have learned is that it is okay to find yourself feeling a certain way about somebody and even if they do not reciprocate those feelings right away or even at all don't let it get you down or consume you with sadness. Instead continue to care about that person and be their friend. The relationship between you may change down the road. You just never know.

Tarot readings can be helpful in some ways I don't suggest a reading for you, because often times doing a reading can influence how you feel, think, act, and react. Start by talking to him and see how he feels, what he says, how he acts. Take it slow and don't be forceful about it either as being overly intense can push people away or intimidate them. I hope that it turns out well for you and regardless I wish you the best.

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I suppose your right. Man how can I indirectly ask about him? In soo nervous with him
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