Hello. I am hoping that someone out there can help me. I am in need of a love spell, well, probably a few spells for my situation.
I have an ex boyfriend. He and I were together years ago and broke up due to pressure from his family. Our love was deep, sincere and true. It tore me apart to lose him. Since then we slowly lost touch until we did not speak any longer. A few days ago he reached out to me online in an effort to catch up. This reignited the passion I have always felt for him. I truly believe that we are soulmates and are meant to be together.
I am gay and he was my first boyfriend, and I his. We met his junior year of college as I was entering graduate school. It was an instant bond. Towards the end of his senior year he told his mother about us and she severely pressured him into calling it off at graduation. After that, he went back to his hometown and I to mine. We kept in touch and tried to talk out ways to make it work, ultimately deciding to give it time. That is when the communication slowly stopped, as he was giving in to the pressure.
A few days ago I received a message from him wanting to catch up. Instantly I was back where I was when we were together. I could not eat, sleep, drink all weekend because I was going over how we were, what could have been, what I could have done differently, etc. He told me that he has been in a relationship with someone for the past 10 years. The other guy is a doctor and the two of them moved from Texas to Seattle last year. There is no marriage and no children, but they did purchase a house together, with both names on the deed. I live in Arkansas.
I know there are several obstacles in the way, but I truly believe in my heart that he is the one and only for me. I graciously let him go and would do anything in the world to have him back by my side. Can anyone help my situation or is this too far gone?
Hey! I am bisexual and I have been in your situation even though I am by far younger than you, what you should have done after at the most 5 years is to start moving on tbh.
Using magic to interfere in a relationship might cause you trouble, if you are aware, there are rules a person must follow with magic. There is the 3x3 rule, anything you do will come back to you 3 times, either good or bad.
Let's say you cast a spell for him to be back with you/break up with his current boyfriend...applying the rules, something really bad will happen to you, especially if they were truly in love.
Sh*t happens in life, but what you must do is learn to accept reality and sometimes things just can't go as you want them to, if he still loves you then he'd tell you something, if you truly love him and the feeling is not mutual then you should let him go.
I'm not one to tell you what to do and what not to do, but I advise you not to use a love spell...
If after all this mini-lecture you STILL want to use a spell, then know that an already made spell costs around $4/$6, if you wish to perform the spell yourself then you will find a pretty effective one in this page
To make him love you: http://www.spellsofmagic.com/spells/love_spells/crush_spells/12550/page.html
This one is called Do they love me?:
Your so wished Love spell:
Just remember you need to have full faith in the spells and also that this is not the wisest thing to do, there are also many spells that can help you let go of him, many spells to help you find your soul mate, just think about it. Explore the spells around, there are soem good ones to help give a positive impact in your life instead of a negative one with 'karma'. Again, I am in no place to talk as I do not know you and who knows? Maybe he still loves you...
In my head I know I should let him go, especially since he has been in a relationship for 10 years now. I want him to be happy, I just want it to be with me. I have dated since him but nobody compares. I never get the same feeling, one that is on a much more powerful level than anything physical. I guess I should just hold to knowing that if we are soulmates and meant to be together, somehow it will come to be, with or without magic. (but a little magic nudge may help)
There are specific spells for this type of situation, to simultaneously break up one couple and forge another. There are even ones to do that *and* work towards finding the third party another lover so they don't suffer over-much.
What you really have to think about is whether you want to do that to him, and whether this relationship can flourish after all this time.
If yes, then I'll send you some guidance towards what I would do in your situation.