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I agree with Rikki... Also, there's no point or result in "casting away her spirit". It's possible her spirit to be managed by entities who manage human souls and not be there at all. No matter of anything her spirit doesn't affect you, at all. She can't and I believe if she truly loved him she wouldn't...
That guy was very unfortunate, it's extremely hard to pass through this... Trust me, if you haven't lived it as I haven't lived it as well, or anyone around, we don't know how it feels. It could cause great psychological damage to him, thank God he's not in drugs or drinks....
Talk with him, it's too early for a spell. His pain may be shown through these emotions, we all have different emotions in this kind of cases. You said it by yourself; he loves you, why do you want to add "extra" love? It would not end well... The important thing is that he loves you, the way he shows that is different. Really, talk to him. And you must be completely honest with each other.
A death is something that may need a whole life to cure, especially if the pereon doesn't believe in the after life... If it's recent or if he's sensitive it should be hard for him. Be patient, and never lose your courage.
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