I am looking for advice on the best way to go on my current situation, to cut a long story short I was with my partner for 2 years and when we were together face to face everything was perfect but due to him not being able to show or talk about feelings and emotions it led to me feeling unwanted when we were apart (we never lived together)...so I ended it.This was the biggest mistake ever, we are still friends and he has told me that he misses me and thinks about me alot which led to a reconciliation but more casual, I want and love him so much which he knows but I want to know wether a love spell or a spell to ask for true love to be bought to me is best as I want to spend the rest of my life with him that I am totally sure....please any help or advice is much appreciated as I am told tonight would be the best night to cast even though I am a newbie....be well to you all.
Re: Advice for tonight plz By: WhiteRav3n / Knowledgeable
Post # 2 Jul 12, 2014
Why not just tell him how you feel? It seems like he wasn't the only one that had trouble talking about feelings and emotions. How can you break up with him for this while doing it yourself? If you want openness, you have to open up first.
In all of the relationships, the most common problem is either or both of the partners being silent about their needs or thoughts. They hide it inside thinking they're doing the right thing but it's totally wrong. A relationship is based on trust which means being honest with each other. You should have told him how you felt so that he could realize what he didn't then.
Men and women are different and instead of rushing to a spell, you can first study a little about how men are different than women and why you should've told him in the first place.
The problem is women only point to the problem and leaving the other person to think and get it but men need straight answers. They want the answer quick and hate trying to figure out what women want. That's why when a problem occurs, both partners should talk to the other side not in their usual manners, but with empathy.
I'm not saying this to blame you for not doing something but I'm telling you not to repeat the mistake when hopefully you're back together with him again.
So don't be shy and have a conversation with him. Tell him what you feel like and that back then why you broke up. Speak to him clear but from the bottom of your heart and he'll feel the touch of your words.
As for the magical part, you can ask your deities or cast a luck spell (if you believe in them) to bring you fortune in your date.
Thank you so much for your advice I wasn't sure whether a spell would be the right thing to do or not, I was always open about how I felt and always tried to talk to him but he just couldn't talk back due to a fear of getting hurt, which I have never done, even when I walked away I explained why in detail. I think it is something that will never change in him so I may end up feeling as bad as before so I think soul searching is in order to decide whether to carry on as we are or just let it all go as just me being the only open one able to talk will not work.....once again thank you for your time as an outside view is always a good idea :-)
Lol. I never said men cannot think or understand. I said men and women are different and psychologically, they have difficulties creating an empathic bond with each other basically because they think different.