Maybe he found out that you're into magic and has issues with it or maybe he somehow found out that you casted a love spell on him. Maybe it's all just a coincidence and things just naturally got worse around the time you used the spell.
You could try asking him what's wrong but if he's ignoring your messages, maybe that's his way of telling you he wants to end the relationship.
Re: SPELL PUSHED HIM AWAY By: Lark Moderator / Knowledgeable
Post # 8 Jan 08, 2016
Looks like you were having this same problem back in November as well.
What you need to understand about love spells is that they won't make someone love you and keep on loving you no matter what. Love spells merely create an opportunity for love to happen. But if you don't do the hard work to keep a relationship going, communicate well, and act in a manner which would encourage someone to love you, then the spell will not keep that relationship going.
Sounds to me as though this isn't a relationship that isn't going to work. You can create an opportunity for love with your spell, but you cannot force him to love you in the long run. Perhaps you'd do better to let this relationship go and move on with your life.
Well, one, no one is perfect, you will annoy him sometimes, and he will annoy you sometimes. Accept this is him. Instead, you decided to use a spell to mold him into what you want. It might of backfired because you didn't cast correctly, but more likely it was the universe/gods teaching you a lesson. Next time, when your loved one becomes 'wishy washy' try talking about it instead of forcing a change against the person's will. Sometimes the problem could be he's worried about a test, didn't get enough sleep, or otherwise has a lot on his mind. It happens.
If I were you, I would give him some space. Tell him you feel he's been acting strange, and if there's anything you can do to help. Stop texting and messaging him [maybe once a week] and leave the conversation to when you see him. In a few weeks if he's still the same, go from there. You might also consider reversing the spell because [as far as I can tell] it wasn't needed and you're being taught a lesson.
First of all, Santeria is a religion and not a magical practice; meaning whatever "Santeria love spell" you think you did was actually just a love spell. Santeria is an initiatory religion and I have emphasized this quite a few times throughout these forums, meaning that you can't just go and do "santeria love spells". That is considered disrespectful to those who form part of the religion that are you are making this into something "hollywood".
As previously stated, love spells cannot and will not keep someone on your side forever. They open the path to love with this person but will not in any sense control him to stay with you. Even if it did, it would be a very unhealthy relationship having someone by your side who truly does not want to be with you.