Hey guys! I know this sounds weird but I need some help with my situation: I'm in this sort of relationship with a girl and I'm trying to break up with her, but she just doesn't accept the fact that I don't love her like she does. It makes feel so bad because I think she's a good person overall and we spent some good times together however I feel that our relationship doesn't work and I just want to go on with my life.
Obviously I've already tried to talk to her about it, many times, but she keeps coming back. I would like us to remain friends someday because she has never treated me bad, she deserves someone who can love her better than me.
That's why I need some help maybe for a spell to "gently" push her away or maybe get her close to somebody else. I don't wanna hurt her or do anything bad, I'm just feeling stuck. It would be the best if she meets somebody more compatible because I truly believe she deserves happiness and love. Let me know if there's some ways I could cut ties with her in good terms.
you could try using symbolism with candles as a method of "burning the love away" using string or a photo.
think of something that symbolises her love of you. this could be a photo of a kiss, something she gifted you for the relationship, or even a text from her saying she loves you. (if it's something where you want to keep the original or it's difficult/unsafe to burn in any way try taking a photo and printing it to burn the photo instead)
after you have your symbolic item you could get a candle and light it (black is generally a good colour for banishing) and burn the item with the candle flame safely while focusing on your intention of her letting go and staying friends. Thus, symbolically burning the love away.
You could also go a different route and try binding her to the friendzone by getting something that symbolises her and something symbolic of a friendzone (could be as simple as a small box that you label "friendzone" with intention) and glue or tie that photo up in the symbolic friendzone to bind her there.
Those are just two ideas I came up with quickly, try testing out what makes sense for you using materials you have at hand. If it feels right, then try it out.
Hopefully this helps ^^
Another idea I just thought of would be to tie objects that symbolise you and her together to symbolise your relationship, and then gently untie each knot while thinking of letting go and untying her from you
You have the right intensions at heart, and with that said, I trust your judgement in this specific situation. Because you want the best for her, and you don't want to deny her the love and happiness she deserves. So even if you take away a magick spell, I'm sure your best and well wishes for her, will bring about positive energies which will be directed towards her, and to guide her.
That's the power of good, pure intentions, which sometimes is all you need.
So in my opinion, I would rather advise that you just try and focus on moving positive energies towards her, and creating like an umbrella of energy that's going to shelter her, and the reason for doing this, is that , your intensions, combined with energies, will reach her, and give her a new outlook on whats before her eyes, which will be a picture that excludes yourself as the energies will only work with your intension, and your intension is cutting all ties to her and her life.
My suggestion would be as pineapplepop pointed out, Candle Magick or in this instance Candle Energies.
Candles are a vital and most appropriate tool in regards to energy work.
The elements of fire and air works extremely well in transporting energies through the atmosphere, which can reach it's chosen destination easily and which makes it very effective.
So a very simple spell I thought I might share with you, as I have shared this in spell casters coven, its basically a spell for emitting positive energies of change and wellbeing. And what makes this spell so effective is, your intent will obviously differ accordingly with different spellwork, however the incantation is of a positive energy release to bring about a positive outcome.
Create your suitable environment, get a candle that you are drawn to, i use candles with glass holders, so I write my intention on a piece of paper and place it under the glass holder, however the candle you may use, you can still place the piece of paper underneath (please practice the necessary precautions)
Light your candle, write your intention with her full name, place it underneath the candle, focus on the flame, and say this simple spell.
Candle So True
Flame So Bright
All that is Wrong
Make it Right
A very simple spell to set the wheels in motion to transport the energy of the candle to it's destination to bring about a change.
