Hi,
My best friend has been dealing with an abusive father for very long. And we have decided to do a working which would make him face all the pain he has caused to his family. I tried finding spells like that, but could not find one. Does anyone have spell suggestions of that nature? Pls link to any spells you know or write any spell of yours. It would be a great help.
Thank You
Before suggesting a spell for you to try, it would be helpful to know how experienced you are in actually casting spells or using magic in any way. There truly is more to successful magic than simply reciting some words and perhaps lighting a candle. Knowing how experienced you are helps us suggest a working that might work well for your purpose.
As much as I would like to say go curse him, but will that end the cycle of abuse? Sure, cursing him in that way would seem fair, but the real issue is not being held in action. In fact, cursing him in this way can possibly increase the abuse. Like Lark said I would try to understand how spells work. Magick is not just saying a few words and tossing a wand around if there is no energy tossed in with your intention.
If you really want him to face the pain he has caused, have you considered organizing an intervention?You can use a cleansing ritual first to kind of scrub the energy out, but it sounds to me like what you really want is for him to feel remorse. I don't know in what sense you mean abusive, so if this is not an option, that is perfectly understandable, but honest and open communication can sometimes do more for showing someone the error of their ways than any sort of punishment. An explanation of the specific actions he has taken and how they affected each person goes a long way to showing someone that they have been toxic and motivating them to change that. They are not always successful, but if this would be a safe option, I definitely recommend looking into it.
If your friend is genuinely unsafe, you should seek help and get them out of that situation as best you can. You may try a binding spell to help keep him from continuing the abuse as well.
Basically what you want is a mirror spell. Simple, take something which belongs to the father (preferably hair or if you can, a drop of blood or something stained in his blood). Something like a piece of his shirt or something could also work. Either burn small things in candle fire (make sure both sides are reflected by mirrors), or just tie the taglock around the candle.
Maybe chant something like:-
"What you sow you do now reap.
Reflected to you, so mote it be".
Focus on all the energy given off by the candle reflecting back to the sender (just replace the candle with the person in your mind)
I have been practicing for a couple of years now. But, my friend, who wants to perform the ritual themselves, has never done a working in their life. So, I was thinking that I would probably help them out with the working, but the main caster/performer of the spell/ritual would be my friend.
I can not give you the specifics of the abuse, I have asked my friend if it is fine to post it here. I can tell you if they are okay with me telling you the specifics, I will post them here.
I second Moon Fury's suggestion of a Mirror Spell to reflect their actions back on themselves Normally I'd say that it would be better for the more experienced to cast the spell, but since this is a very personal one for your friend I think it might work best if they do it. Have a good talk with them beforehand about energy work, focus, and intention so they are as prepared as possible when they do the working.
