I have a set of major goals to reach by my next birthday. I've met all of them but one.
Buy a house? I bought my house this past spring. It's a 3/2 on almost 2.5 acres in an area you wouldn't expect to find it. There are so many fruit and nut trees, I'd never have imagined finding such a place. And yet, here I am.
Find a not-retail steady job? I've got that, too. I work in the warehousing and distribution of fine wines and craft beers, and in the past three years (since I've set these goals) I've been given every raise possible, and two positions have been created in the company as an excuse to promote me. So, I count that as a goal met.
One goal remains, and my time grows short: Finding my next love.
This is somewhat embarassing for someone who's been practicing for so long, but I have honestly never really delved into spellwork whatsoever. I've made sigils; I've done intensive ritual work; I've meditated and visualized, immersively conversing with aspects of my unconscious mind and aspects of myself from the long past. But I have never really cast a spell.
So here's where it stands: I want to do something to the universe, divinity, whatever, helps me find my next and hopefully last, forever, love. But I'm not really sure how to approach this. I don't have a specific interest in mind, but I want to make sure I attract the right person to me, and attract me to the right person.
So, what sorts of spells or workings do you suggest? I've been told I'm attractive, so I don't see a need for a glamour in that regard. I don't lack in confidence when it's the right person, so that's already set. I have a circumstance that people will want, so that's not so much a need to convince someone to look past.
As for ingredients, I immediately have wild-grown American black cherry, as well as honey and cinnamon in my cabinet. I don't know if this would help with suggestions. The roses have all faded from my several rose bushes.