Ok, so I have only casted a 9 knot spell one time before this & it wasnt on my behalf. I did it to help a friend. I didnt see any of the signs that it worked. After 2 months Id seen the outcome for him & I knew it had worked.
This time I casted the 9 knot for myself. A little in site, I was starting to see a man that I felt was the one not only my thoughts but his actions. He had been divorced 2 years & wanted to start a new life with me. (His words, not mine). May 5th we made it official. We were a couple. Then he started pulling away & I found out that his ex-wife had contacted him & wanted to get their family back together. (My thoughts are is that she heard he had started to move on & wanted to keep him as a her Plan B. She had left him for another man.) But he didnt tell me this right away. He decided to try to keep me in the dark about his rekindled relationship with his ex-wife & keep me too. He knew I wouldnt be willing to be his dirty little secret. I told him that I didnt want to be his friend. That I didnt want anything to do with him. He wanted to sit down to talk, & I gave him his opportunity & he told me that I was special to him & he didnt want to loose me but he missed his family. I stuck to my guns & still told him I wasnt his friend, that I had plenty of friends. This is/was very difficult for me to do. Because after all of that, I still care for him. I knew that things between him & his ex were & are very toxic & it wouldnt last. All of this is why I decided to cast the 9 knot spell.
I made up my own. I wrote down all 9 of my intentions & I read them each out loud as I tied each knot. I played All I want is to be your girl by Holly Miranda 9 times (on repeat) on my phone, again repeating each of intentions as the song started over. After the 9th time the song played, I shut my iPod off. When I was finished. I wrapped my 9 knots around the paper I had written my intentions on & tucked them away.
Here is where I need others opinion because I dont know if Im just looking for a sign it worked or is working, or this is truly a sign.
I hopped in my truck & my Bluetooth connected to my phone & the first song that it played was I put a spell on you by Marilyn Manson.
What do yall think?
My personal opinion is that if this man was "the one", he would never have placed you in the position that he did. Since you've not stated whether or not their toxic relationship is now over again, I shall assume that it is not.
If you are willing to settle for a man like you've described, then I wish you luck with the knot spell(may it bring to you everything which you deserve) and advise you to be patient, as time shall reveal it's success or lack thereof.
I get what you are saying about him. I wasnt really looking for relationship advise. I wanted to see if I could make the spell work. I will decide then if I want to go back to him at that point (if the spell works & if it happens.) I will absolutely practice my free will.
What I wanted to know is if the sign I was seeing was really a sign, or me just hoping it was a sign. :/ I may have given too much info, I tend to puke out too much when Im trying to explain my situation. :/
There is a lot of information on the site on proper spellcasting. One of the central ideas has to do with having confidence in the working. If a person has doubt that their efforts are working or will work, the strength of the work will be diminished. Another commonly discussed theme is timing. Some times the work is effected immediately, other times it takes longer. The general consensus is that if you have the intention worked out and do it with enough energy, then there will be a result. Cast it out there and then be satisfied that it will work at some degree. Rather than have doubt, strengthen the results with additional working. Good luck
I have given you no relationship advice. Please allow me to be more clear.
There is no way for anyone to determine whether or not you are seeing signs of your spell working. It is all a matter of perspective. We each see what we choose to. I am suggesting you have patience and wait for tangible results. You should be able to tell, depending upon what they are, if your knot spell has worked.