Also, you have to use some logic when working with love spells. Does he have a way to contact you? Does he still live in the area? Is he in the right spot for a relationship? The spell must tackle all of these first. Are you sure you haven’t seen results? Look for signs, perform divination, or flat out check his social media to see if there has been any changes.
Yeah he is still able to contact me and everything. I haven’t seen any signs that my honey jar has worked. Actually he posted about another girl recently which makes me worried that it didn’t work at all. His Facebook still says single and he’s still on tinder so I don’t think they’re dating. Perhaps another friends with benefits? I don’t know. Also what is an ED spell? I’m new to spells and haven’t heard of that one yet.
And I’m sorry I didn’t know text speak wasn’t allowed.
Best to move on from all this. No use in forcing someone to like or love you. Real relationships take a lot of time and effort and you have to put in the work. Find yourself a partner who likes you for being you, remember you have to put in the work. That being said your current relationship would never blossom if you're only in it for intimacy. Hope you got the real picture.
I’m ready and willing to put in the work if he would just give me a chance. I don’t just want intimacy from him but if that’s the only way I can have him then I’ll take it. I just want him.
I looked up impotency spells but a lot of them need something personal from him but I have no way of seeing him unless he messages me and asks to hang out. Is there any spell I can do that doesn’t require anything personal from him. I am able to get pictures though.
Cutiewitch, how much experience do you have in working magic and casting spells? If this is the first time you've tried to do it then it isn't at all likely that finding some spell on the internet, chanting some words and burning a few candles is going to have any effect whatsoever. Magic requires a sound base in how and why it works in the first place, and experence with the necessary skills such as focus, intent, visualization, and gathering/directing energy.
There are some concerning things coming up when you're posting. I understand wanting to be w someone you care about, but don't settle for just being someone's friend with benefits if you have deeper feelings and actually want more. It sounds like a long term recipe for disaster for both of you. In addition, you'll find a lot of different opinions on this site regarding the full gamut of love spells. You've tried the most benign version (something like a honey spell, to increase someone's attraction/draw to you). But things do get kinda fuzzy when you try to do things to subvert other people's free will (changing their ability to be attracted/attached to other people, binding them to you, etc). Would you like it if someone did it to you? If not then I would defer doing it to someone else.
That all being said, there are other good points also made above about magic being more than just chanting some words and lighting a candle. Going back to the honey spell, this might be another reason why it was not as effective. The goal of a spell at the end of the day is to raise up/channel energy to a specific goal, generally to tip the odds in favor of one way or another. Even a powerful spell caster, for example, probably couldn't cast a love spell strong enough to get the target to drop everything and come running to them instantly. If you want to learn more about the depth behind all of this, that's awesome, and we're glad to be here for you! On the flip side, if you came hoping for a quick and definitive answer to this problem, unfortunately you're not going to find it here.
Hoping you are well and wishing you all the best going forward. and keep in mind that if sex is his primary objective, you deserve better/more from a relationship! Don't settle just because of that
To piggyback on what Lark mentioned above, if you are just starting out with witchcraft/occult practices I feel as if you may be over thinking your work. The key to a successful spell is not to become obsessed with it once you have cast it. Sure it's natural to think about it a once or twice a day but it's not something you should dwell on. The desperation for results will slow or pervert your spellwork.
You must get rid of all doubts. I call this entering a state of 'knowing'. For example: You know the spell will work. You know the forces that be will manifest your desired result. You know it to be true.
I would wait a bit longer? How long has it been since you did the spell? Wait at least a month, then recast it. Did you tell him you want more? Anyways just wait a bit. Spells are not instant. Hope this helps
