I have a close friend of mine and we have been friends since high school and I have known since high school she had feelings for me and I kinda did too but I was not in a place ready for a relationship when my girlfriend died since then weve hung out and I really like her but every time I get close to the whole dating part she said she is kinda afraid to get close now after something bad happened to her with an ex I was hoping she is one of my closest friends and I do have feelings for her and hope maybe someone can help me move to that next step with her or maybe cast a spell to maybe get us together it would be much appreciated if its not possible I completely understand
Nothing sexual just something to help her maybe have a relationship with me like a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship just since her ex she had said if I dated anyone it would be you but she had not been ready just hoping for help I have no money but hoping for someone to maybe see this and help thank you
Re: Help turn friend to lover By: Kaurora / Novice
Post # 3 Jan 14, 2019
I think the fact that both of you are open and communicating your feelings is a major step in a good foundation for a relationship. You both have difficultpasts that you have had to deal with and overcome. The ability you both have in expressing those experiences and how they are making it hard to move forward, you with the death ofyour last girlfriend and her with troubled issued with her last boyfriend, shows you both have great ability in expressing your concerns and emotions. This is something that many people struggle with, so you both are already making great progress in your overall mental understanding.
Since it is apparent that you both have feelings for each other, I would strongly advise to continue communicating. Express to her how much of a support she has been to you and that you are hoping she will take the next step in developing your relationship. Even if it is a simple night out, taking her to dinner or going someplace together may be a good direction. While these are little steps, and you may need to continue to take little steps, they will help develop a very strong foundation for which your romantic relationship can grown from.
I wouldn't recommend any spells at this time, but perhaps a charm necklace, similar to a honey jar spell, that you can give to her. Do some research and come up with something like a protective spell for it and maybe even link it to another charm that you both can wear to feel closer. While this would be a nice gesture to her, it can also mentally make you feel more connected. Charms and spells aren't necessary but sometimes it helps give you the confidence you need in speaking to her the true feelings you have.
Good luck, I hope things develop for you the way that you are hoping.
It didnt go well at all just went and said how I felt and was open about it she felt the same and it went bad just said after her ex she is afraid to give it a shot so Im hoping maybe someone can help cast a spell on me or her or us to help
This post is probably dead but I wore a good luck charm when we went out and she said she is afraid to do anything let alone a relationship and said and this is the quote If i had a sign or woke up feeling different that than I wont feel any different and i just dont want to take any chances getting hurt by anyone Im alright with being alone Im sorry I like you I just dont wanna take that chance please help me if you cant I understand sorry for bothering anyone
Re: Help turn friend to lover By: Queen_Ash / Novice
Post # 8 Jan 21, 2019
At this point I don't think any amount of magick will help with this. She has her own reasoning's for not actually wanting to date you and I think it might be the time to move on. Forcing her into thinking differently will only hinder the relationship and falsify the true feelings. It'll be fake, and forced on her part.