Living with an abusive husband whom is actually going to a lockdown treatment facility for 6 months. Is there a good spell for this program he is going to help him change, to have a positive outcome and he changes and not abuse anymore.
Re: Abusive Husband By: Rekhet / Novice Feb 27, 2018
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Sadly no, you can pray for him though. I sincerely hope he changes and becomes a better person as a result. Keep in mind, only you can say whether he really is better; stopping abusive tendencies requires a while new world view on the part of the abuser. Otherwise they'll simply go back to being abusive as soon as they know you won't leave. The start of them shifting back will be small red flags that might or might not catch your attention. If you let them slide, it will slowly get worse and worse until it's just like before or worse.
Additionally, if he does not stop abusing please consider alternatives to staying in that situation.
If you'd like me to offer prayers for your situation, his recovery, and your safety, I'm more than willing to do so.
Re: Abusive Husband By: prsona / Knowledgeable Feb 27, 2018
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Since he is seeking treatment, yes: You can do workings in his favor. No magic is a guarantee of success, however. But it certainly does not hurt.
I would suggest at the least some workings towards success in this endeavor, that he does affect this change in behavior. I am also searching with little luck (though my online search skills seem to be lacking sometimes) spells to reveal the deeper issues to him, so he can find the true roots to the reasons he behaves in certain ways. Such revelation can go a long way in helping him change.
If he entered this program himself, then that is a good sign: Not a lot of people are willing to admit they have a problem and seek help. If he did not enter it on his own accord, you can still seek success for him, of course! I think all of us here are hoping he changes.
Re: Abusive Husband By: Nekoshema / Novice Mar 03, 2018
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if he's chosen of his own free will to go to this place to get help, yes, you can light a white candle and ask the universe/deity to watch over him and help him succeed. you might even light a pink candle and visualize how your marriage should look. there's also healing spells, all of these would work better if the two of you do them together so you can both heal from the past and grow closer in your relationship.
if he was sent to this place against his will, idk if any spell would really work because he doesn't want to change. if thats the case, i would consider all options to do whats best for you.
finally, since your husband is in lockdown for 6 months, i would take this time to heal and connect with yourself. this is an opportunity for yourself to grow stronger and understand yourself deeper. i wish you both the best, and i hope this program helps him.
Spells and Magick can Deffinetely, change one's behaviour and feelings. For example this is how love spells work, manipulative magick works extremely well for that and some spirits can greatly help.
Things are more complicated, your husband, before he gets born into this world made himself be abusive. And I can tell you have agreed on that before you get into this world too, you knew what it would come and so did he... Look into breaking curses magick, I know it sounds strange but for specific reasons it sounds like this man cursed himself to be abusive. Seems like the curse is breaking now but a bit of magick would help.
I have done it too in past lifetimes with friends, either you believe it or not. While it's not their natural self, they were cursing themselves to be abusive or bullying torwards me (for purely fun). I don't know if I cursed myself to be abusive, but I cursed sometimes me to bully some foends from the otheroworlds that came into earth..and this bullying was involved to intresting things lile love, magick and so on!