I'm doing a sex ritual with my partner, and I'm planning to do a ritual cleansing beforehand - likely just holding a few sprigs of a herb with a washcloth in the shower due to limited resources.
I don't have much knowledge in herbalism, but I'm doing research for this cleansing. I was considering using lavender, since I'd read that may work and it feels right to me. But I don't want to take any chances because my own knowledge is limited.
Any advice or ideas? Would lavender work?
Thank you to any and all replies made. I really appreciate it!