Hi, I casted a spell yesterday. Actually first time casting, immediately after casting I feel some weird effects. I used a spell from internet. Its a 'return ex lover" love spell. Which is also pretty simple one. I don't think there is black magic involved also. After the spell was done, the first thing I noticed is breaking the plate, cut my finger (blood come out) accidentally on the same day. And I start crying for missing ex lover. Its been a long time I haven't cried since the break up which is nearly 3 months ago. The casting had only been 2 days. (I casted on Friday) I haven't hear anything from my ex but facing these weird events. I am scare if the spell is working the right way or not. Any ideas what is happening for this kind of matter?
You can use some sort of divination tool to establish the efficiency of your magical work. For example, pendulum and pendulum board, Tarot or I Ching. We cannot know for sure because we were not involved.
If it was me interpreting the signs I would think that the the consecutive events have more to do with releasing bottled emotions and actually breaking away from things, rather than fixing anything.
It does indeed seem at first glance to be a simple result of you being distracted, at least as far as the broken plate and cut are concerned. Maybe take a little time working on focusing a little more on the present moment and it will help. (Ie where you are, and what you are doing in the present moment.) it can be a form of meditation on its own, and can also help develop a better awareness of yourself and your surroundings if practiced regularly. Of course it also helps you let go of stress and worry.
As far as the cry, it may have been a simple needed release about your situation, triggered by the spell and also your focus on the situation. This isn't a bad thing though. One has to feel their emotions before they can heal from them. This might actually be part of the spell's effect, depending on the exact intent of the spell when you cast it.
It may have created an opportunity to heal wounds and take best action, rather than a literal return of the ex. It may result in you instead finding a peace with the situation, and even maybe moving forward into a better relationship with someone more aligned with you, be it the same person after some personal growth, or a different person entirely. Don't be afraid to look in new directions, nor to contemplate that there may be a reason you two are no longer together. it may be that you have already taught each-other what you were meant to learn, or that there is someone better for you that you have yet to meet who will teach you new things.
And yeah, I'm one of those granola-munching spiritual types. But I figure the perspective might help. ^_^
Yes, it's been day 3. I am still crying every morning I wake up. The strange thing is the crying become lesser & lesser when the sun goes down. And at night I am in normal state. Yesterday I even got a crazy headache. Still have doubts about whether the spell effect or is it just me? Will try to meditate soon. Or another possible reason is that maybe the spell work & in turn I receive the energy & messages from him? But why has to have the sad feelings? I always send him positive energies.