I am sorry if I posted in the incorrect thread. If I did I apologize in advance. I need some help. Someone has begun work on my ex to have his energy weakened towards me and strengthened towards her. Her goal is to bring them closer together and create a distance between him and I the work has begun but it has not been completed or sealed at this point. Her goal is to create negative energy between him and I and strong between her and him. To draw them closer together and make their relationship strong. But to push him further from me. I know he loves me and thinks of me but I haven't seen or spoke to him for 5 months cause she forbids him to speak to me. They have recently spilt up but the work has still been done so there still is a chance they can reconcile. I am new to this I am sorry but I must ask because it has started but not completed or sealed what do I do? Do I have to do anything? You may PM me if needed.
I would recommend doing something similar to what the other person is doing: try strengthening the bond between you and your ex (either through magickal means or not), while finding a way to weaken the bond between your ex and the other one.
Thank you JK for answering my post. :) the thing is I don't know what work she has done. I just have been told she has done work. She didn't do it herself she went to someone and paid someone to do it. I don't not know how long ago she did it either. I am very green with doing my own work also. So not even sure where to start or what to do. He hasn't spoke to me in 5 months as she forbid him too. So we haven't seen or spoke to one another in that long. Now he has spoke to my friends about me knowing they will tell me so I know I am still on his mind. At first it was mean things he said but lately he hasn't spoke ill of me at all to my friend. But he makes a point of staying in touch with MY friend knowing she will pass conversations on to me. So he is using her as a 3rd party so he isn't speaking to me directly as he has been forbidden too by this other woman. They are not together right now they broke up so now is my golden opportunity to change the way it turns out in my favour. Before the work is completed and or sealed.
I am in the same situation some one did my husband the same way and I did not find out until he left me. I don't know what she did I was told by one of her friends that she did its going on 4minths for me and he will not communicate with me unless I see him at a store or something
Hey, I don't have experience with this much, but I would suggest you try a truth type spell, since it's good to get everything out in the open with all parties.
But I'm also concerned with you saying that she forbade him from speaking with you? That can be extremely harmful.
I would try to do a blocking or a protection type spell, so that you can talk and see how he is doing, if you can block her spell from being completed maybe it will be easier for you both to talk.
Maybe even try a confidence or free will spell. But also remember it's best to have permission from the person you are casting the spell on if you do cast on someone else!
Note that I don't often do spells, but I hope your situation doesn't cause too much distress.
I have not yet done any spells to myself or to him either. I just recently learned that she had done this. From what I am told the energy work she did for him and her has been or will be completed but not "sealed" so from what I understand is that until it is a sealed deal so to speak I have a window to reverse it. Apparently the work she had done to stop his energy and my energy from getting stronger or better has been done but not completed. So I am assuming whomever she got to do the work did a half ass job. So as it stands my "work" she tried to make all things negative and turn him from me hasn't been completed but the work she did to make them stronger has been completed but not "sealed". They are not together now but she has fed hm lies and manipulated his mental state towards me so he is angry and miserable about me meaning when he speaks to MY friends about me it's not nice. Well it wasn't anyway but last time he reached out to MY friend he didn't speak mean of me. He has nothing in common with my friend but yet he asks that she make sure they stay in touch. Before that mean t to me that he was using her as a way to reach out to me and get msgs to me. Because the other woman forbid him to speak to me but now they are not together she is no control over him like she did before. BUT what scare me is if the work she paid for is still being done or she goes back to have more done that there is a chance she can get him back before I have a chance to break down his anger towards me and try to get him back. So I have to work on opening that channel between us and work my magic so to speak. But I have to do it before she gets to him first. So I don't know what move to make and what spell or work to do.
Try finding out who she's most likely to pay to start the work. If you can, then you might be able to find out what they did. Also, I agree with the others in saying that a binding spell would definitely help, so you should do that and go from there. Talk to your friend as well and see if your ex has been acting strange when he communicates with her, and if so, how. You might be able to use that to find out what she did, so you can reverse it.