Help with Procrastination
Help with Procrastination
By: LadyClarity
Post # 1
Oct 25, 2015
I need major help from all of you my friend here; I am a "BIG Time Procrastinator." I have done meditations, hypnosis, NLP, EFT, just name it
and if and when I was successful it was only temerity, for a day or two, not even joking. I dont know how, I even manage to bring more stuff to cover my place of living with junk! I am successful with helping others, yes even with procrastinations. But for some unknown reasons I am trapped in this crazy cycle. I love when my place is neat, with less unwanted clutters. I even asked spirits to help, and they have told me it was related to my son not living with me. My son came after many years (10 years of not having him) at age 17, my place was neat, and he would make a mess, when he left, my place (His room) became cluttered) It was like keeping his messy room with his energy as he was still there, when I used to get annoyed. When I realized it, I cleaned it, but it didnt last for too many days
Now hes coming back to leave with me, and I've been trying to clean more like to empty that room with no luck. However I know on a deeper level that this problem started way before my son lived with me, it was when I got divorced and lived by myself, then had my father moved in, which the clutter was getting out of hand. It was like my way of asking my father to move out, because he came as a guest and never left. I dont want to have him move, unless he wants to, I welcome him to my home, I welcome my son to my life, I just want to stop my procrastination.
I tried to sell the items for cheap but with no luck, I attempted to give a way, also no luck, its too much to carry to the donation spots, and I already gave away 10 bags of clothing, and I still have so many that I cant let go... I dont even wear them, so no point to having them. I have papers, books, magazines, more clothing, shoes, boxes, that I gave a way and also throw away, and I still have so many left, and when I look at them I cant make myself get rid of them.
Any rituals, spells, tips, are appreciated. It does affect my life in general and if I can do it, I can help many more others including myself. If I just can let go of this problem, and open that clutter, Ill be so happy and FREE.
Please help me, write, what should I do?
I have done everything and its been all my life except the time that I was a child and when I was married, after my divorce which is over 25 year, Ive been struggling with this problem, same thing with going to the gym, or waking up early in the morning. Thank you in advance!
Re: Help with Procrastination
By: Lark Moderator / Knowledgeable
Post # 2
Oct 25, 2015
This thread has been moved to Misc Topics from Welcome.
Re: Help with Procrastination
By: LadyClarity
Post # 3
Oct 25, 2015
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