Hello, I am making my own spell and it is called a I don't care spell and I need help.
Goal: to not care so much about something or not care in general.
Reason: I want to make this spell because I care waaaaaaaay to much about what others think to the point it hurts me and makes me revolve my life around others in a unhealthy way.
I already have the words to the spell now I just need things to kick the power up like candle colors, herbs, stones and what not. The colors I have found for the candle that I think would work is
grey for neutrality
purple for independence
and black for control, resilience, and discipline.
I can't find any stones that would help and I don't know much about herbs to choose one
Can anyone help or give advise?