I have read through all the posts and I haven't read where anyone suggests that you may need to cleanse yourself first. Many people overlook this step is conjuring. Hoodoo does NOT abide by the law of three. This is why it is important to decide on what you are going to practice and do it thoroughly. Hoodoo is not Wicca or other forms of witchcraft. So, the first thing I would do if you haven't already done it, because this post is old, I would do ask others have said and through jar in running water and ask petition for removal. Then you need to do a series of 9 cleansing baths along with some Psalms. Particularly Ps. 51. After you do that. You need to take at least 3 to 5 sweetening baths for yourself, so that you have the same sweetness you want him to have. During both the cleansing and sweetening baths PLEASE remove ALL fear and doubt. This was your first mistake. You should never practice any power acts with fear in your heart. This within itself will taint your work. You must build up your confidence. Conjure is MORE about YOUR STATE OF MIND, rather than your target. YOU MUST BE STRONG, FEARLESS and without DOUBT. When you feel this way go back to the drawing board and you will be amazed at the results. Good Luck and GOD bless.
This is an old post but for ppl just now seeing it let me say this. ts not that the honey jar backfired its that as they said above more than once there may have been under lying problems in the relationship and you didnt see it, or some ppl whom are strong willed will fight the spell. In Hoodoo it is always tecommended that you get a reading first to determine if this spell is even right for your situation. In this case and again I know this topic is old, a reading should've been determined to see what went wrong. You never know... it could have been him fighting it. the relationship took the wrong turn, OR worse case scenario is that someone was working against you. This is just something I wanted to add to this topic...
Entropy.....sometimes magick isn't the answer at all. Ever think maybe things just happen because there meant to?
One of my favorite quotes:
"There are better things ahead then what we leave behind"
Don't sweat it so much, what's meant to be will be. But if he stopped expressing feelings, he probably had his reasons. Maybe his heart just wasn't in it anyone. No matter what, you deserve someone that gives you the attention you need, without casting spells on them.
I'm not being mean Hun, just give him some space. Sweetie you deserve true love, where no spells are needed...and so does he for that matter. True love always finds a way, if it was meant then it'll work itself out. Casting spells, and trying to force the issue with him, will only make it worse.
Maybe he just doesnt love you? There isn't always an explanation for not liking someone anymore. Or he could just be mad at himself for something he did that was wrong and believes what he is doing is for the better