"Xeno, that is just sad and wrong" Yes it is, but it's very true. That's a problem you get with any website though. It's meant for people who have a legitimate reason for talking to each other and you find someone who feels the need to use it to get sex. The even sicker thing is that half of these "12 year olds" aren't even their age, they're 40 year old men or women sitting at home.
I honestly think there should be the standard 13+ requirement here. True, people wouldnt listen to it anyways, but it frees the site of some important legal obligations, should the kid get themselves into trouble, since it makes them agree to the TOS and it also makes them agree that all comments are the property of the poster and etc etc...
As it is now, I don't think this site has any legal leeway except the "for entertainment only" thing at the bottom.
As far as people looking just for sex, that's actually why I changed my pic. Nobody messes with me that way now. Before I got weirdo guys always sending me messages, saying dirty things. Once there was a guy making gratuitous comments about how he knew I secretly wanted to orally pleasure him.
I'm not a baby, and it wont scar me for life or anything, but it's sexual harassment to an extreme degree.
Well, its to be expected on nearly any website. People that go around soliciting sex should just be ignored. Yes, there's a chance children will see it, but in all honesty is it anything they haven't already heard before? Children are constantly being pushed to get older and older by mainstream pop-culture. That's why we have so many social problems that we didn't use to have. Now the culture is always spreading a message of 'Party all the time, drink to your liver is shot, and have sex all you want IT'S FUN!' Its really disgusting. Of course I admit to being highly opinionated, and I'm often ostrasized by my peers because of it. It's the facts though, and sadly there's nothing we can really do about it.
AxelBraver i agree completely, the media and world are forcing kids to grow up far too early. Why do you think 10 year olds and lower are doing stripper dances and little kids are having sex with each other? Because the media is throwing sex in their faces 24hrs a day making it seem cool. That and people arnt teaching their kids well enough.
Death, i disagree completely, children shouldnt be exposed to such things at all. That is sick to the core. Theres a reason why children arnt developed at a certain age, they shouldnt be doing anything like that. You say its because people have told their kids not to have sex, but these days its promoted everywhere, i dont know what time your living in, so those words dont apply. You cant listen to music or watch tv without seeing or listening to something completely sexually oriented. If you think they should have sex just because it feels good, then you are a very simple minded and sick person.
I didn't ever say KIDS should be exposed to that. I said that the only reason there is a stigma is because it's been made into a taboo. Children should learn about sex as they go into puberty, so they are prepared for it.
I was sexually abused as a child and sexually exposed as well I would NEVER put that on another person I think it is absolutely f*cking disgusting that you think I was implying that.
I merely said that sex shouldnt be demonized, this happens mostly at the highschool level which is when they want to have sex the most.. Until medical science got so advanced most girls were being wed and bearing children at 13-15 etc.. I am not saying it's right, but they need to be taught what to do to not end up preggers and with HIV since, HEY, IT'S GONNA HAPPEN NO MATTER WHAT.
Teenagers are in a state of intense sexual frustration. It happens, it will always happen, it probably always has happened. Unless you're gonna bolt your kids knees together, it will happen to them too.
