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MinervaJane makes total sense.
keep trying to meditate, it can be difficult for people, especially starting out, but over time you'll get the hang of it. every couple days, try something new until you find something that works. incense, music, lying down, siting in a chair, on the floor, crossed legs, straight legs, in darkness, in sunlight, in the morning, at night, there's many different things you can try.
als, since you're new to spells, start with something simple, like candle magick. take a candle of a corresponding colour to what you want [yellow=friendship green=luck] sit holding the candle, feel/visualize energy entering you, flowing down your arms and pooling in the candle. when ready, place the candle on your altar and light it, all the while visualizing your outcome. if you want to put out the candle, snuff it out, don't blow it out, it's believed the blow away the spell.
another point, moon phases, be sure you're casting at the right time. if you're drawing something towards you [love, wealth, protection] cast it during the waxing moon. [new-full] if you wish to send something away [weight loss, curses, banishing] cast during the waning moon. [full-new] the moons pull can effect spells like it effects the ties, it could be the extra push your spell needs to work.
lastly, work to achieve your goal. a love spell doesn't work if you sit at home watching movies alone. you need to say hi to the cute girl in your class, go out to social events, meet new people and so on. you don't have to go insane, but a little effort will help the spell along.
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