wounded healer

is this really the path of a healer? to experience so much pain in your life? ;(

sorry for ranting.. i just can't helped it.. i'm in a deep melancholic situation right now.. experiencing family problems with my father and my little brother..

i don't know, i always want to help others but why can't i help myself in such situations? ;(

blessed be everyone..

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I have been in many situations where my healing skills just did not help and through other means I found the solution to the issue at hand. I have been a healer for over 45 years and there are times when I get the full dose of my patient, I had a kidney infection for four hours after a healing because I forgot the basic premise of releasing the negative energy. I never forget now, but as a healer expect to absorb the pain and suffering of those you heal, but ground and release theenergy tomother earth she can handle it better than we can. after divining and meditation your issue is going to be resolved in a positive manner and all will be well. the time for this to occur is around the bend as they say.
Blessings and keep the faith:
Rogelio21

a lot of thanks rogelio.. i do know that being a healer means taking the risk of damaging oneself but then again i have no doubts of being a healer.. thanks a lot rogelio..

blessed be..

by the way, what kind of healing techniques you're using? if you don't mind..

I'd suggest trying to get hold of a copy of Singing the Soul Back Home by Caitlin Matthews. It's a book that delves deeply into the idea of the wounded healer and relates the author's own experiences with shamanic sickness. You can buy used copies on Amazon for under $3.

I've been using alot of visualization, energy transfer, healing touch when they are near to my location, plus I do accupressure massage But with more of a spiritual healing than just a massage.
I also use other techniques likecastinghealing spells and herbal healing spells.
Blessings and peace:
Rogelio21

just wanted to say i understand and hope the best for you,sometime in life we are all tested,i would suggest you hold character while in the hard spots of life and grow closer to God,seek the face of God in hard times,he said he would be there if we call out to him.

...much peace and love

I use visualization with energy transfer, touch healing, accupressure massage with more of a spiritual angle to guide my healing energies. I also use spells and herbal healing spells.
But the biggest and most important aspect to healing is your belief in your ability and trust in the fact that you arenot allowed to tackle any issue beyond your current level of ability,at least that has been my experience from the time I started to use the gift, now at 60+ years I am allowed a whole lot more and exponentially expanding my knowlege.
Blessings:
Rogelio21

Even healers need healing. But remember, one of the most important skills of the healing isn't just to rid an evil from another, it is to NOT do so by absorbing it into ourselves. We need to divest ourselves of whatever evil we take from others.

That is why I was taught to return the negative energy to mother earth as shecan easily absord and dispose of it better than we can, I ground and center myself while holding an object attached to the earth this has worked for disposing of the negative energy for 45+ years I guess it is an ok method.
Blessings:
Rogelio21

thanks for all your supports and suggestions..

and again, i'm in the middle of a deep melancholic state with my best friend.. we did quarrel again.. ;(

thanks again to all of you guys.. prayers and blessings to all of you..