The world seems to be full of heartless people in today's world and very little would be there to help you when things go wrong. And least he's trying to help which is more than a lot of people do nowadays in this world (or maybe it's just this city that's so cold xD). But as Rag states, it's on you to take it in a positive or negative way. I say go with positive cause when women go negative, the guy better know how to run. (I've had enough stab threats to know this by now lol) But on a more serious note, if you are mad, don't be so hard on him cause he was just trying to help.
I also agree with Rag and Fighter..I would look at it on a more postitive side but as stated it's up to you hun, noone can make that decision for you..
i just dont know what to do because firstly hes not my boyfriend and secondly i have a horrible past with him... thats why im torn... i mean i appreciate it and all but idk...
If he's not your boyfriend then why bother? He may care about you, but if you don't feel the same way for him or for any reason feel that it wouldn't work then trying to make it work would be a waste of time.
This is manipulation, pure and simple. It starts like this, moves to manipulation in your life, getting you to stop association with IRL friends...etc etc (I think you can see where this is going). With a sister and adopted mom who BOTH worked in womens' shelters, this is how an abusive relationship works.
So run....and get a restraining order if you need to.
I don't think every guy who tries to help and fails is going to be abusive, Aelwyn, but I do agree with Erebus. I don't think we have really seen enough to say whether or not this guy is or will be abusive. Like with any guy, there is the risk of it, but no definite he will/won't be. If you just want to be safe then you might as well isolate yourself completely since everyone has the risk of being abusive, but then in my opinion you would be abusing yourself instead.
do the chicken dance- call jerry springer or Maury and publicly humiliate him. and then record it and send me a copy i would love to see a episode like that i can see the caption -my stalker hacked my account and clamed to be my bf- or you could take this positively and just forget it ever happened either way goodluck
