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Ok so here's what it is (Yes, another love issue, commence epic eyeroll ;)) So. Before I say what couse of actions I plan to take I'll give you some info on the complicated (aren't they always?) situation I'm in.
My husband and I have been married about 3 years and all the sudden, by surprise, "He loves me but is not IN love with me" yep, that old cliche. There is this girl at work he's attracted to that he keeps talking to... claims as long as he's married to me he wont be unfaitful, So I believe him. Anywho that being said, He still wants to be friends with me, just doesn't feel "that way" about me. We still live together, no papers went anywhere or anything like that. He says he doesn't feel like he can have fun with me. That he would like to want to have fun with me, just doesn't.
*Course of action*
So, where do we go from here, right? Welp. that's where YOU come in ^_^ What I wanted to try is a combination of things.
1. Spell to make ME more attractive (in general. If I am, he'll see it cause well, lol he lives with me so yeah)
2. Spell to make ME a beacon of love, light and hope that people are drawn too and just associate fun with my name
3. Spell to make him more open to our marriage working, or at least willing to try.
4. The other chick. Ok so I'm really hoping that using spells to make me the best me there is also means she'll be out of the picture "just because" however, some people are just stubborn lol need a back-up plan, just in case

*I would really appreciate some spell suggestions
*I love Hoodoo, but am not restricting myself here, I'm more of an eclectic.
*If you're just going to tell me to get over it or something, save your keystrokes ;)

Thanks in advance my lovies <3