Control a Flame

Set your candle onto the towel/mat and light it. Stare at the flame and imagine contact with it, create a force just by looking at it. After you have a path with it chant/say, "O' (god/goddess) give me the power to control this flame, make it flicker, or light it in the night, move the flame or burt it out, so mote it be."

Try to put your hand as close as you can (without getting burnt of course) to it and moving your hand up and down or side to side. Remember, it doesn't work every time you have to have a strong mind