I made honey jar about 4 weeks ago, i think it was working in the beginning, he was sweeter for 1 week. after 1 week, I added my hair and my guy's hair and a pic of me and him together addition to his pic. after that I started to feel more into him obsessed him , and my feeling got stronger toward him , thinking about him 24/7, feeling urge to see him, depressed, anxious . I acted crazy , showed obsessive behavior toward him, he didn't like that and he started to avoid me, and now, things are worse than before I made honey jar. I read somewhere that honey jar affects both people (target and caster) if putting caster's things into the jar.
I am going to start over the jar. disposed the original one.
Anyone had similar experiences? Is there any chance that he can change his feeling positive way toward me?
That sounds a lot to me like an obsession born of lust for results. I've seen similar happen with people before: The desired result of the working becomes so forefront in their conscious mind that the desire builds upon itself. While the working itself may show no real results with the intended target, the person who initiated the working creates a sort of feedback loop which compounds and causes nothing but problems for the person.
This is one of the forms of "insanity" which many systems warn about.