A little bit of background: this guy who I fell in love with (and who I believe fell in love with me) got back with his toxic ex. I’ve tried everything to get over it, but I just can’t seem to, so I think intervening will help. I’m looking for a spell to end his relationship with her, because based on what he literally told me about his ex, she’s not a good thing for his life. She didn’t let him have any friends, and it’s no wonder she was the only one he had to fall back on (he couldn’t fall back on me, because when I found out he was with her, I removed him on all socials. It was unhealthy for me to have him in my life at that point, and it still is). He’s already going through enough as it is, and I think he’d be better off if he had some time to learn to love himself instead of being in a relationship that doesn’t bring him anything new. His “girl” even knew that he was hanging out with me the whole time, and found out that we kissed after they started planning on getting back together, but she doesn’t have enough self respect or respect for him to leave. All she wants is to have someone— she doesn’t care at what that cost is to him. I’m trying to do the right thing by him. Besides, he gave me permission to cast a love spell. I think a spell that undoes love falls under that category. Do you have any spells or techniques that you recommend for this situation, or any advice at all?
"It was unhealthy for me to have him in my life at that point, and still is."
If this is how you are feeling why is it so important that he leave his current significant if him being with you would be unhealthy for you?
Disregard your views of their relationship at the moment and ask yourself whether he is currently happy with his situation. Not your views of his ex, but his current mood and experience?
Much of this backstory is your view of whether he should be with this girl and why, and honestly it is biased.
And again if a relationship with him is not healthy for you right now, why does it bother you that he is with her and is it possible your view is furthering this unhealthy space?
As for a spell, it is probably better you learn to write your own and learn how to direct that energy.
You want them apart then put in that effort, instead of using a pre written spell. The more you are involved in the working the more you will be able to raise the energy and connect to the working to gain results.
I agree with Raven here. If this guy is bad for you, and if he left you to go back to his ex, then likely this isn't the right guy for you. He's now dumped an ex and then dumped you, that pretty well tells you he isn't into this for any lasting relationship. Rather than casting a love spell and trying to create something which isn't there (at least on his part) don't you think it might be better to do a working to sever your ties with him so you can move on to something better?
I don’t want to get with him, I just want him to get away from her. I need some sort of closure— I have already severed all ties with him. But the emotional connection is still there. I feel for him— he had a really tough life and the codependent relationship he’s in isn’t going to benefit him at all. How can I sever their tie, not only because they deserve it, but because I need some closure?
It takes time to get over someone. Splitting him from his current relationship should not even be present in your mind. Just focus on yourself and moving on. You don't make his decisions for him. Sometimes going through a bad relationship is a learning experience someone needs in order to grow.
