Hello all. Im seeking a spell to help bind my marriage closer / reconnect if that makes sense. I have a strong marriage and am happy but I feel as if something is very off like he is is away from me. He does work away from home so this doesnt help in the matter
Simple spells like honey jars can sweeten your husband's feelings towards you. Simply put a small photo of him, along with any of his lose hairs or nail clippings, in a new jar of honey. Add a small piece of paper with something like "be sweet to me" written on it, seal the jar and burn a light blue candle on top so the wax runs down over the lid. You can burn a new candle on top to keep the magic working about once a week (on a Friday is good as Friday is governed by Venus).
Herbs like cumin and coriander help in keeping a partner's thoughts on their happy home life, so you can add them to cooking (carrot and coriander soup with cumin bread becomes a magical meal). You can also make a mixture of powdered cumin and coriander seeds, along with powdered rosemary, and sprinkle a pinch in each corner of your bedroom. Skullcap (Scutellaria) also keeps a partner close to you if put in a small pouch and hung from the post of your bed.
A really simple spell is take take one of your husband's worn socks and tie it with one of your worn socks and place them under your mattress. There are some more involved spells that ask for the help of various deities and spirits, but it's always best to start with some simple folk magic.
I would make something with him. Create a love potion or honey jar together to combine both of your energy. You could do a binding or renewal of vows [between the two of you, you don't need the whole ceremony. It's a promise between you both] above all, I would speak with him instead of casting behind his back because it doesn't fix the problem, it's a patch. When we've been together for so long, we fall into a routine, so sometimes a surprise date night, gift, or "I love you" text is enough to get the ball rolling. We're all guilty of it, so I would speak with him and plan something together.