Enraged anger and grief consuming me. In an attempt to be kind to a male friend of mine girlfriend invited her in my home unaware that she is a deeply Disturbed pathological liar and crazy kleptomaniac who practices witchcraft. Learning the hard way I realized the urn holding my deceased father's cremation ashes were missing at first I asked her if she had remembered seeing the urn while she was at my apartment then told her why when she said had not paid attention to it. I tried to give her the benefit of doubt but now I know she stole him because I found all the beverages food and my makeup that she stole from my home when I showed up at her house before calling her so she didn't have time to hide my belongings because she wasn't expecting me to show up at the time that I did so I had caught her off guard. To me it is devastating this is my father this is his remains the last part of him left on this Earth and she stole him. what I need to figure out is what and how she intends to do with my father's cremation ashes in order to reverse word off whatever it may be as well as I got to figure out how to get my father's ashes back from her because today that was there do found my belongings in her house she automatically called the police on me saying I was just passing in her house. Please help me I need advice if anyone knows or had slightest idea of what she is intending to do with my fathers cremation ashes weather it is seance curse or spell I need to know I need advice please help
if she stole a bunch of items i would would if she is a practioner or is a plain lunatic who just decided to steal somones remains along with her other 5 finger discounts. But the fact she wouldnt give it back after telling her what is was is just questioning..
Call the police and report that your items are missing. Explain the circumstances of her being in your place around the time the items went missing. Let the police know exactly what items are gone including your father's cremery remains.
She needs to return the urn and remains immediately.
Honestly I'd be less worried about what spell she intends to use and curses ( a rarity I may add), and completely heart broken of the loss of something so important to me, a human being and parent. And I am certain you are devastated.
It is not right to take something of such value and significance, for any purpose.
Re: IMPORTANT eed Advice ASAP By: Spirit76 / Novice
Post # 4 Jul 26, 2021
I agree with CrystalSeer. First issue is a legal one. Report it immediately and get the urn and ashes back. Be sure to inform police the urn contains ashes and if/when it is returned, check and confirm they are there.
If memory serves, some crematoriums weigh and document the volume. If you want to be sure, get it weighed and compared.
Either way, worry about the spiritual once it is back. Perhaps consecrate the urn/redo any internment prayers, or otherwise welcome it back into your home as a place of peace, rest, and honoring.
Even if some ashes are missing, the good news is there are things you can do to prevent them from being useful magically if that is a worry. Ashes can be used as a direct connection for a spirit so they can be reached for summoning, sometimes binding, communication, or help in magical tasks. Think of it like having your hands on the classic 'red phone'. A direct line to the spirit they specifically belong to.
Also, if your father has moved on/already begun a new life then there is nothing to worry about. The person might try calling, but there will be nobody home.. so to speak.