Hi! Im looking for a certain type of love/forgiveness spell.
In the spell Im looking for instead of a basic love spell I really
Want the person to forget all our bad memories and anything
Negative surrounding our relationship and replace it with all
The good memories .
To be honest Ive tried a spell to re attract this person to me
Before and I feel like it backfired....I feel like there was too much
Clouding our relationship. I also feel like this person will only
Focus on the negative because it is in their nature .
I feel like if I can get a spell to wash away the bad then I have
A higher chance to have a healthy relationship and start over .
Re: Need help finding a spell By: prsona Moderator / Knowledgeable
Post # 3 Jan 31, 2020
The bad news is that the past cannot be changed, and memories cannot be repressed remotely. Some believe it is possible to influence such things, however, through use of things like neuro linguistic programming and hypnotism. Considering that, it does create a repression and suppression, adding to that person's shadow aspects. These things are still there, just pushed to the background.
A much healthier approach is to communicate, and address the problem areas to see if there is potential to work through them. If the things which influenced these negative aspects have truly changed, moving forward may be possible. However, if the influences have not truly changed, then you can expect a return of the same interpersonal issues.
The thing is we are not in communication right now ...
Im trying to give it space ...maybe then if I cant change the past
I can find a spell to bring up positive emotions instead of replacing the negative ones.
Re: Need help finding a spell By: BrynBrown / Novice
Post # 5 Feb 01, 2020
It sounds like this person is trying to move on, and it seems they have reason to, as they felt the relationship was very negative.
You sound very manipulative right now. You're asking to get rid of their negative feelings, which, for all we know, could be valid. You said communication isn't working, so obviously they are trying to distance themselves from you, which is a normal way to end a relationship.
Honestly, from an outsider's perspective, it sounds like you're being clingy, and you need to let this one go.
Hello there, Im Kristi from Akron. I see youre looking for the Cast and Bind Spell. You need to be trained and learn the principles of the spell. Send me a DM if you care to know kore about it. Sometimes love is everything
Re: Need help finding a spell By: Kaurora / Novice
Post # 8 Feb 03, 2020
Most love spells will backfire, which is why many don't use them. They might work in some situations but the end result is never what the originally person was intending. I have see some backfire and cause the person they wanted to become repulsed by them.
It sounds like you are giving space, which is important to heal for both of you. If you don't want to give up yet, I wouldn't recommend any love or attraction spells. Its either there or it isn't. I would focus on healing and perhaps do a honey jar spell to try and open the lines of communication, if anything, to at least remain friends in each others lives. But remember, if this individual has moved on and does not want to communicate then that door may be closed for now and you should focus on yourself and healing in your own means.