The intendance all come down to your intent. If you have purpose for each ingredientsthan be sure to have the intentions of your spell match and you should be fine.
As far as a honey jar spell, this is a nice idea but they take a long time to develop. If you are fine with waiting it out (could be weeks or months) than stick with it, but if you are looking for something immediate I would also include another spell along with creating the honey jar, this way they can work together; (your immediate spell to create that sudden spark and the honey jar to hopefully keep it going)
"Any ideas on how to go about doing an immediate spell ? Ive only done honey jars in the past".
You could try making a sigil for your intent, charging and then storing it as a longer term spell alongside your honey jar.
You'd begin by making a sigil perhaps to represent lust. You'd copy it onto a small piece of paper. You'd then place it under a tealight candle. Light the candle and let it burn to charge the sigil. After blowing the candle out you'd want to store the sigil somewhere safe.
When results are seen dispose of the sigil.
I use long term sigil work like this often as a spell all on its own. I've had very quick results with this method. What matters to me anyway is how much energy is put into the spell regardless of how much time one performs it. A long term spell does not necessarily equate to more time to wait for results.
Like I said I've had very quick results with spells intended for longer term.
I hope this helps.
I don't have exact ideas for a quick result spell. I've had success with spells meant for longer term. I view it as just giving myself more of a time frame for spells to manifest.
I would consider a lust spell. You should create your own, and if your partner is also looking to "spice" things up, having them participate in the casting or helping is beneficial. You can also introduce some foods that help increase sexual desire. Most of these cause chemical increases in specific levels in your body that can cause relaxation, excitement, or heightened senses, but everyone reacts differently and some may need to eat more than others.
Watermelon is actually a very good one, but I don't list it since the actually thing you will need to consume would be the rind to get any sort of effect from it. (you can pickle them though! as it is part of the cucumber family, totally editable) You are better off just having a glass of red wine and go for the grapes instead.
I like some of the elements you've included. Instead of hot sauce, I was wondering what you would think of more like a cinnamon aspect? I think of the type of cinnamon in red hots/big red and that might feel a little more of romantic-hot vs painful-hot? Just a consideration. It might work well with the sweet/honeyjar aspect of the spell too.
A quick candle spell on top of the honey jar or incorporated into the honey jar aspect might be helpful to encourage both rapid and long lasting effects.
Of course, if you guys also haven't talked about how things are going sexually, there is a lot to be said about having some frank conversation about what's frustrating you. Having more foreplay in general might help you get in the mood more easily without alcohol. And I hope this is not appropriate to say, but it's helpful to masturbate/get to know your own body and what feels good to you, because that helps you give better feedback. I know it doesn't sound super romantic when it's put that way, but it helps.
A lil extra honey jar kick never hurt tho, either!
Yes cinnamon does sound better actually, now you mention it. Ive not even started on this jar yet, i could do with starting it today actually, or at the latest tomorrow, maybe today, it is a Venus day after all.
Another poster on here mentioned doing a sigil for more immediate effects alongside the jar. I did the sigil last night and charged it with masturbation, i have it hidden for now, ive now disposed of it. Do you think i should now burn it, or leave it a while ?
Ive never done a sigil before, so im not too sure, i had to watch a few youtube videos prior to get the jist of it.