Hey everyone, I'm new here and the reason for creating an online presence in an occult forum is that after lengthy self-reflection, I couldn't figure out what is derailing my life. I looked at all the observable, "scientifically provable" things and not a single one of them was responsible for the massive misfortune that happened to me over the years.
I don't know when exactly this started happening, but I have been living like this for a long time. It's hard to explain what is going on, but I will try. Every time I do something to improve my situation there is a negative event that puts me right back where I was. It is like I'm not allowed to advance forward in life, and this gradually reduces my quality of life, since I can't accomplish what my peers do. It's not the lack of effort or ability. It's like the universe designs these events only to mess with specifically me.
It this some kind of a curse? Did I unknowingly hurt someone that had the power to cast such a curse? I have never been a bad person in my life. I'm generally honest and I might have been inconsiderate sometimes, even mean perhaps, but I never done anything evil and I help out everyone I can. If so, how can I lift this? What can I do that will give me the opposite effect of what this curse does and I can finally find success and happiness?
There is a philosophical concept known as the " Law of Attraction ". It states that negativity attracts negativity and positivity attracts positivity. In other words, negative emotions and negative energy will attract misfortune and positive energy/emotions attract better outcomes. Perspective is key. Instead of asking yourself " Why do these things keep happening? " ask, " What can I learn from these events? " If all you think about is these events as being a curse or feel like the universe is just attacking you, then those things will manifest itself.
Here is the most basic understanding of how curses work:
Curses are similar seeds. Once planted in you by another, you, the individual decides whether it grows or not. When the caster intends to do you harm, they are using their negative energy and emotions, along with visualization to manifest your suffering. The best way to prevent any curse from overpowering you is through positive energy. If you keep holding onto negative energy, abiding to negative emotions, the seed of the curse will consume your negativity and grow. Once grown too big, you need to perform a spell to remove it. By feeding the cursed seed with positivity, the seed will not grow, and eventually, falls away.
Everyone goes through challenges in life. One of the most important things to remember is that you are you, and you are no one else. Stop comparing yourself to others because everyone is uniquely different. What may be your strengths can be weaknesses to others and vice versa. Take on the lessons of the Lotus Flower . It grows in murky waters too filthy to drink. Yet, despite of how inhabitable its environment, it still grows to become the beautiful Lotus Flower. Challenges are there to shape and refine us. There are lessons behind every tribulation. Use them to create the best version of yourself. If this story doesn't suit you, then I will share another.
Identical twin brothers grew up watching their father get drunk and enraged. They grew up watching him coming home late at night, argues with their mother, and out of drunken raged, beat her. When the twins grew up, one of them became an alcoholic. He drank continuously and became drunken with rage just like his father. When people ask him why, he responded: "I watched my father." The other brother grew up never touching alcohol in his life. He was able to maintain a stable job and start a happy family. When people ask him why, he responded: "I watched my father."
Perspective on your situation will affect how the outcomes will be. Do not dwell in misery, but rather rise and continue growing yourself. Growth is the most painful thing to do, but by growing our roots, we are able to bear fruit.
I hope this helps.