Leave him, love me?

So I am deeply in love with a certain girl, and I have a feeling she likes me too, but she is taken by someone else, who from what I've gathered isn't the"nicest of people". He's not worthy of someone as wonderful as her, (I'm not saying I am) though I would like to have a chance. Anyone have any spells that can make him leave?

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I really take any side since they are always two sides towards a story or situation but everyone deserves what they will into this world. If you are new to magickwork needs to be done or if not I'm sure a Goetia spirit could guide you on your goal.

All I can say on the subject is that if you really love her, you will let her be happy with who she wants to be with.

Forcing her away from her current relationship, which she may be very happy in just to be with you isnt what love it about.

Instead just be there for her, not trying to force yourself into her life, but instead being someone she can rely on and can get to know furtherand if she does decide to leave her current relationship, she may come to you afterwards.

[sorry if i come off harsh] if you love her, you should accept the fact she can be happy with or without you. it hurts, but sometimes people aren't on the same wavelength and aren't meant to be together at this point in time. you never know what they have, maybe this guy isn't perfect, but you are viewing the situation through an obscured lens. you are looking at them wanting to find cracks. if you love her you would let her choose what is best. [granted, if she is being abused, i can see why you would want to help out, but while you can try to convince someone to leave a horrible situation, they need to choose or they will most likely return] the other thing you need to realize is you might not be ready, or her, or even her boyfriend. every day we are growing and changing, and you might not be mentally/emotionally/spiritual compatible for each other, but her and her boyfriend are. this might change one day, this might not, hard as it sounds you should focus on you and not trying to chip away at someone elses happiness.

as for magickal options, you could do divination, to see what you need, or even if there's a chance [but i wouldn't pursue a relationship with her as you would need to manipulate the situation to get her] you could do love spells to bring more self love into your life, or even find a new love [but if you still want her this wouldn't work well] and you could do a love spell on them to break up and her to come to you, but thats really morally wrong, and you need to be ok with forcing someone to be with you [which if you're fine forcing someone to be with you if they would be happier with someone else, you really should ask yourself if you actually love them at all?]