Ive been through some tramatic things. long story short, i got out of a verbal/emotional abuse with rape... during the time i was away from my ex. I bonded with a friend and we got intimate. I ended up messing up badly with dealing with the aftermath of emotions of my break up and ended up hurting myself. He knew and put up walls since it reminded him of his ex. I'm not like his ex, it was a one time thing. Since then our friendship has gone down hill... He was my main support through all this and a vert good friend i could open up too. I dont care if we are not intimate anymore...anyway i now feel like i lost him. He dosent really talk to me anymore and i want to fix our friendship or help it... Please tell me if there are any spells you recommemd to help fix my friendship with him...I appreciate it greatly.
Re: Heal a relationship? By: Lark Moderator / Knowledgeable
Post # 2 Oct 23, 2017
You might look at some of the Honey Jar spells on this site to "sweeten" the relationship between you.
That being said, remember that such spells don't work in a vacuum. They may increase the potential for your friendship to grow again, but you are still going to have to do the hard work that any lasting relationship requires. You are going to have to show him that you are trustworthy and not going to hurt him. And the two of you really need to have some serious discussions our hangups and your expectations of the relationship. If you can't do these sorts of things the spell isn't going to make things last.
I will do that. Thank you. I dont mind the work it will take to help our friendship. I just want to try something so in the future we will beable to talk about whats going to happen. I just want to try to make it so we are on good terms again. Thats all im hoping for.