Hello. I am new here, but not new to magic, although I still don't know many things and I am trying to learn more. Few days ago I was searching here for some love spells (I wasn't really convinced about using them, because I've read that these are ''bad'' spells) and someone mentioned that honey jar is a good idea. I want to ask for advice, because I still don't know if it's okay to use it. So... Me and my partner broke up. We've been together for 3 years, for both of us it was and still is much time. I made many mistakes and saw it when it was too late. I am doing my best to change and slowly it gets better, but still there's much way to go. We still have contact, but it's not so good. We live far away from eachother, but in the same country. First I wanted to use love spell, but I don't want him to ''turn into a zombie'', I don't want it to be forced. He knows that I am changing, but for him it's simply too late. It's not like I have to be with him no matter what, but before I will give up, I would like to know that I have done everything I could to make things better and there's just nothing much to be done. Do you think honey jar is a good option? Do you think it can help me? I found a ''recipe'' on lucky mojo and I am willing to try it. I am sorry if I made some mistakes, english is not my language :D
If it is over, let it be over.
Let him walk away.
And you move on as well.
If you two are meant to be, you will find a way to work your problems out.
As for the honey jar, I don't see anything wrong with it.
Relationships last as long as they are supposed to, and you learn things from each one. It is good to hear that you know you made mistakes, and are growing past them, but being honest if the mistakes you made with that person are too much for them to love you in the same way, then it will never be the same, and it is up to you to make sure that you do not make the same mistakes again, in a new, fresh relationship.
It is healthy to take a step back when you leave a long relationship like that and get to know your own self; your strengths and weaknesses, your good points and bad. On the journey of self-discovery, you will find that the perfect person turns up at the perfect time, without you doing anything other than growing. They will be attracted to your light, and you will be better able for the relationship, because of your growth.
A honey jar might sweeten your relationship with your ex-lover now and make it easier to be friends again, but there are a lot of factors pushing you apart and personally I think it would be better to accept that flow than fight it and make a messy situation.