So I am making a honey jar spell to try and get my ex back, I need advice only so please no comments telling me not to do it! So far I am going to add
-cinnamon oil and powder
-love me oil
-a picture of each of us wrapped in red string
-a cutting of his boxer shorts (as they won't fit whole)
-one of his socks (which has been washed, I hope this doesn't matter)
-and a blue and pink candle on top to finish
Would this all be okay, and would you add anything else? How often should i light the candles and can I light them more than once or do i have to replace them?