Specifically, spells to reunite past lovers? I broke up with my ex months back. I've gotten numerous readings saying that he still loves me but is being emotionally blocked and negatively influenced by others. So I strongly feel that I would not be manipulating nor binding him against his will, but rather clearing his path to me and our newborn we have together. I am fearful of paying a psychic medium/spellcaster as I know that there are so many scammers. This site has countless spells ranging from novice to advanced level with bringing an ex lover back - has anyone tried these spells and had success? If so, which ones are they and what tips would you recommend I use to cast them given that I am an amateur? Thank you and your feedback is greatly appreciated!
Re: Any proven love spells? By: Lark Moderator / Adept
Post # 3 Sep 14, 2015
Whether a spell works or not doesn't depend on which spell you choose, it depends entirely on whether you understand how and why magic works at all and have done the work and study necessary to know how to cast a spell effectively. Even then you need to understand that no spell works 100% of the time. Spellwork can be negatively effected by many factors. But you can't expect to simply read something on a website, chant some words and perhaps light some candles and "poof" the spell is going to work.
Lark is right, but I think it would be wrong to carry out this endeavor. You say you wouldn't be manipulating him, but the exact opposite is true. Just because you aren't affecting who he loves doesn't change the fact that you are taking away his chance to walk away. Love doesn't always lead you to where you want to or should be. Maybe he has good reason for denying temptation. Not to mention all of this is assuming he actually does still love you. You are afraid to go to people out of fear they will scam you but yet you trust those who told you he loved you in the first place. Maybe they are just telling you what you want to hear. My advice: try talking to him.
Everyone makes a valid point. This is the thing - that he loves me and that I'm on his mind he does without a doubt. The reason I know is because he's all of a sudden called me yesterday and today reaching out to me and telling me he does - all I did was meditate using some YouTube videos on how to draw my twin flame. Whether that did the trick or not I'm not sure, but my past readings have been accurate saying he would contact me. The problem is he's no good to me nor my baby if he is still battling with substance abuse. I don't need his negativity clouding over me and my son. I love him dearly, but I'm also conflicted because he is selfish, manipulative, and deceptive when under the influence. Recently, when he's sober he gets bitter and seems to just care about getting his next fix. I wish at this point to get a spell that will remove his addiction issues because that will eliminate those unhealthy traits and behaviors he's developed - at least that's what I'm hoping. :(
Personally I am against love spells of any sort. I believe that if he still loves you he will come back to you no matter what.
But to answer to your question as Lark said casting a spell is no as simple as most people think it is. I would reccomend you to learn the basics first, you can find them on SoM. Moreover if you choose to use a spell that requires candles you have to learn the colors and meaning how to cleanse them and possible how to carve them. Also I consider moon phases very important. So if you decide to cast a spell be cautious since you can't be sure it will work or that it will have the exact result you desire. To avoid any side effects I would also recomend you to learn how to write your own spells. I m no saying that your own spell will definately work. But it is more personal and it is most likely to work since it is made out of your personal energy and will.
I ll wish you luck regardless
Thank you. I don't know if you've read my last post, but I've made up my mind not to dabble on a love or relationship spell of any kind. He loves me but is preoccupied and consumed by his drug abuse. I want to do something to remove the negativity and void in his life that makes him inclined to drown his sorrows in illicit substances.