okay, I'm still a newbie, and I am not that sure how to say this, so here goes nothing....
1. create a figure out of clay. if the golem is human, make the figure a human figure. make sure it has a mouth.
2. put a piece of paper into its mouth, with orders written on the paper. for example, you can write down "clean my room". (if you want to give the golem a new order when it's alive, take out the old paper, and put a new one into its mouth)
3. to bring life to the golem tap on it with your wand and say the following incantation
with the name (insert golem's name here) so shall you be
alive to guard o'er all you see.