You don't have just one element, you have all four, or five (if you believe in akasha)
However you don't have just one, you may feel connected to one, you may find of easier to work with one, but your element is not just ''one!" Element. In order to live you need all four of the elements, so if you had just one...why would the other elements be here? Why would you use them? Ect.
Plain and simple, you have all four elements within you. Sometimes you are stronger with one, but all that means is that the others need to be worked with. You can shape elements, and work with them, but you don't have just one,
I'm connected and open to all 4 elements too. Whenever I feel paranoid or insecure, I connect to the elements around me. If I feel danger in the water, that's when the water helps to strengthen me and help me overcome my trouble. I use Earth to stabilize myself to the ground, that's how I ground my negative feelings. If it is too hot outside, I am now connected to fire and now, that element gives me strength. I probably work most with air cause you know, it's everywhere. Air actually helps me control my feelings. And if the tornado occurs, as Brysing said, i'll have to admit that it is scary.