How to stop an affair? By: Jbaker8379 Aug 04, 2013
Post # 1
Hello to everyone,
My question is in reguards to stopping an affair. I have searched high and low, but have been unable to find exactly what it is I am looking for. My wife fell in love with another man, and I wish for her to return to me. What I am looking for is something along the lines of him finding another (unmarried) woman and letting my wife go. Him deciding its too much work or trouble and ending it with her. Him just forgetting about her and moving on. I would even go as far as something bad happening to him, but only as a last resort.
We all know it is wrong to break up a marrige like this, if we had been divorced then ot would be different. I love my wife and children very much, this is sincerely from my heart. I have always done everything I could to provide for their needs and as many wants as possible. All I wish for is her to return to me and love me like she did before, to keep our family together the way it should be.
I seek guidence as to the best order to accomplish this, and suggestions on the best spells and rituals to accomplish this. Yes, I have thought long and hard if this is the right thing to do, and I am being guided by forces unseen to this decision. When too many coincidences happen at once or every time you try to walk away, they are no longer coincidences.
Re: How to stop an affair? By: Moegami Aug 04, 2013
Post # 2
You want my honest opinion? You need to directly speak to your wife and seek marriage councelling. Your wife is finding affection with someone else because she doesn't feel she is getting it at home. This is something that can be fixed through normal therapy and doesn't require magic. If she refuses to seek therapy with you, then she doesn't want to fix the marriage, and that's the end of that. You can use spells all day long, but at the end of the day, magic will not fix a broken marriage no matter how much one tries. You want real results, not temprary ones.
Re: How to stop an affair? By: Jbaker8379 Aug 05, 2013
Post # 3
I thank you for your reply.
There is a little more to the story, we did counsuling but something is amiss. This was as soon as it all came about, and she had much anger and resentment toward me, but I had given her no reason to act this way. I had worked long hard hours, sometimes only home a couple days a week from work. Yes, I was tired and sore, I usually could hardly move or stay awake. I was doing what I had to do to keep a roof over our head and food on the table, I was under the belief my family understood why I did what I did. It seems I may have been wrong, but that did not change what I needed to do to provide for them. I had nothing left for my family when I got home, I understand that, I wish it could have neen different but I did what I had to do.
The problem here is that when she is with him its like a fairy tail. She leaves the kids with me and spends how ever many days with him doing what they want with no fear of bills, or taking care of the children. That is not real life for us, it never has been. Once he moves in with my wife and children it will all change. I excepted this years ago, I have always done whatever I needed to to provide for them and loved them the best I could. She knows I still love her, she still curles up and lays with me when I am home.... There is still hope, but its not going to be easy, nor is going to come from what most people consider normal ways. Believe me, I have put much thought into this, I have looked at it from every angle imaginable. I also think perhaps there is something else influencing her away from me, it may be magick, it may be something else, but something does not feel right about this.
Re: How to stop an affair? By: Nekoshema / Novice Aug 05, 2013
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well if you want an extreme, you could do a break up spell, then a binding spell on you and your wife. this won't stop her infidelity though, the binding spell will just prevent her from leaving you. if she doesn't love you anymore, it won't change that. you might then wish to cast a love spell over her, but it all will come back to you forcing her into a situation you want, but she doesn't. i suggest lighting a white candle and place your wife's picture under it, visualize her coming back to you and talking. then call her and ask to try councilling again. however, sometimes things run their course, no matter how painful it seems, so know when it's time to let go.
Re: How to stop an affair? By: Integra / Beginner Aug 09, 2013
Post # 5
Use a simple break up spell. You don't have to have him find another woman before he ditches your wife. Just cause a little unharmony in their relationship and it will crumble into ashes. First take two small strips of paper and write their full names. Then fill an unbreakable cup full of water. It's better to use plastic or paper. Believe me. I have learned from experience. Glass breaks when you freeze it. Take a black cloth and cover the cup with it and then stick it in the freezer. As the water freezes, so too will their relationship.
Re: How to stop an affair? By: Integra / Beginner Aug 09, 2013
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I agree with Nekoshema up to a point. The binding spell on your wife would be a good idea. As would the spell to drive her lover away, which I've placed above this post. Aside from that, if your wife doesn't love you anymore there is a way around that. A love spell. Who cares why she feels love for you as long as she feels it? On a Friday night. Under a full moon. A full moon is the most powerful. Light a fire and then take some salt into your right hand. While tossing the salt onto the fire repeat these words. "It is not the salt that I turn to fire. Yet the heart of (insert name) that I desire. Unfaithful she will no longer be. Nor will she have any peace until she comes to me."
Re: How to stop an affair? By: Jbaker8379 Aug 24, 2013
Post # 7
I may be wrong when I say this, but my intentions are better then they may seem. There are children involved, and if this divorce happens they will end up being split apart. The older two have a choice who to live with, while the younger two do not. The older two wish to stay with me, but it breaks my heart to think about telling my 7 year old that she will not see me or sissy every day anymore, or to tell her mommy is moving out and daddy is being replaced by another man. As far as money goes, I have very little, but I would be willing to offer one thing that I do have to make this right and stay as a family even if it only lasts until the youngest is 18. The only thing I have left to offer in all honesty is my soul, that I would gladly trade to make this right, as a parent I will do anything to not see my children cry.
You work a lot and for little money, your wife didn't get attention or much money either... I know it's hard to accept but the problem is usually with you, your thought processes, actions, attitude...You need to change! Of course magick could/would work, anyone who states otherwise must be inefficient in practice, which is a disappointment coming from someone who's apparently knowledgeable.. Let me tell you something, you never done all you could, otherwise you'd not have this problem and you'd not be broke, I would take a long hard look at myself and try and see where she's coming from.. Magick is powerful and effective but you need to change and be what she needs... actions are after all part of the trinity of manifestation...
Re: How to stop an affair? By: devonte1000 Nov 03, 2013
Post # 10
I'm going through the same thing. I want to ask will someone help me cast a few spells. My son is hurting in this so much and yes do am I. I also wonder how to do a stop a divorce spell? Maybe a fall back in love sprll love me and only me? Last a spell for the guy to go away or etc. Thanks please help